Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Dance Moms chassés its way to stage exploitation

What does a fake reality show do to a real kid's psyche?




Dance Moms, about a no-nonsense, abrasive Pittsburgh dance teacher and her young students, is turning into Jon and Kate Plus 8's biggest rival for Pennsylvania's most exploited kids. From ranking the girls in a pyramid each week, to filming the girls sad and crying when they make mistakes, to all the fighting that happens in front of the kids, this show is hot on our radar. 


But turns out, even the star of the show admits a lot of it is fake.


When asked about the infamous pyramid, in which the same girl is usually on the top, dance teacher Abby Lee Miller told TV Guide:
I've never done that in my life. That has nothing to do with me. That's the show. They came up with that whole process. The whole pyramid thing was for the show because we could not do a new solo for every single child, and a new group and new duets and trios every single week. There's just not time available.


As for the constant competitions in which the girls have just a week to learn their routines, Miller said: 
All these competitions we're attending, I've never attended in my life. Teaching children a routine in a hotel hallway that they are performing onstage the next day? That's insane. Nobody would do that. 


But Miller does admit she likes the perks of a reality show: 
For the first time in my life at my age, I was at a dance convention, not sleeping on a roll-away, not on an air mattress with seven other kids in my room, but I actually had my own room. I thought, at this point in my life, I have done amazing things and I have dedicated my entire life — I don't have a husband, I don't have children — to my students. And this involves me. And it's the only thing I've ever done for myself and I'm thoroughly enjoying it.


So, real little girls living real lives. But, fake ones, sort of. A lot of it. Has Lifetime thought at all about the psychological implications this fake reality is having on little hearts and minds?

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Anonymous said...

kateplusmy8
Top of the am 2u... Going 2c @JasonHueman 2day...Love&miss him. Hoping he is back from new salon in Fla by now.Miss his laugh& expertise!

So does she have an appt? If so wouldn't that mean he is at the salon? That tweet makes no sense. Hope this CON at least tips well for his services. I remember a rumor (and yes i know its a rumor, but it sounds like kate) that salon employyes find her high maintenance and said she doesn't tip.

EM

Westcoaster said...

Milo is one sick puppy.

Anonymous said...

Jason, if getting tweets from Milo is all u get out of doing kates hair then maybe it's not the kind of publicity you need. :0)

I just don't see what is in it for Jason Hueman to do kates hair for "practically free" as kate says. It's not like it's garnering media attention. Why give to an ungrateful grifter? If she can afford to truck her ass to NY for a haircut, she can afford to PAY him for his services.

I'd rather see him take a battered woman from a shelter and give HER a makeover to give her the self esteem to go look for work to get on her feet. That's the kind of publicity I would want to be known for. Not bleaching kate's straw and adding more extensions. yuck!

I really have no respect for people who pander when they can well afford to take care of themselves. I'm sure kate lives quite fine on the interest her millions generate.

And when oh when will this woman get audited. She has grifted in public for years right under the IRS's nose.

EM
EM

Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said...

I'm sure Kate had an appointment, but obviously not with Jason since she didn't even know if he was in NYC or FLA.

She was just showing off for her fans to let them know how cool she is...name dropping, as if Jason is a big name. LOL

Anonymous said...

So does the entire Ted Gibson salon have to cut kates hair forever for "practically free" because she gave them the publicity when she lost the reverse mullet? How was that possibly worth it - Ted got plenty of publicity from "What not to wear."

I'm sure Grifter Gosselin had TLC get her an "upkeep" deal for letting Ted touch her hair and be in people mag - and they are stuck with her for X amount of time.

EM

Firefly said...

Anonymous said...

POOR JASON. Milo is now yapping him up.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Milo is like a sticky booger you can't get rid of.

JudyK said...

ncgirl said... 196
"Glad I am ent u while u fold! :)" Huh? WTF?"

Ent stands for entertain. Kate on TV entertained the tweeter while the tweeter did laundry. That's why Kate wants to be in media, for her fans, not the money.
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BULLSHIT, Kate. As always, you are see-through PLASTIC.

Teresa said...

"Sticky booger..." hahahahaa...that hit my funny bone and my jaw is aching from laughing so hard. Great laugh to start the weekend with. Thanks Firefly!

Flight of the Kiwi said...

Jason is busy with fashion week. I remember him getting mixed up with Michaele Salahi - the White Housse gate crasher. He was featured in a couple espisodes of RHODC. She and her hubby mixed in Jason and his BF in the Black Caucus Dinner where they implied to Jason that they had tickets, but then snuck in a side door- ultimately they were escorted out. Jason used to defend Micheale, found her interesting, but learned his lesson. With Kate, I think it's the same, finds her interesting. BTW Kate did say she was not comped (after the big makeover with T.Gibson and People, then she was) but rather was given a DEEP discount. at 950 a cut what would a "deep" discount be? Still expensive for a mom who apparently cannot afford socks for her kids. What? no Dollar Tree in PA? I agree she should return to low lights and a more caramel color with highlights. Much more flattering with coloring. Jason's got to be busy with the new Ft. Lauderdale salon.

"Gratuity" means you're GRATEFUL said...

I hope "Grifter Gosselin" (love the name!) had the good manners to give Jason H. a little Christmas tip AND in the correct amount; not like the windswept junk she left out for the sanitation people.

According to Miss Manners, the amount should be EQUAL to the cost of ONE hair appointment. For example, my hairdresser charges $65.00 for color and blow dry every two weeks; I inherited horrendously premature graying hair which started in high school!

So at Christmas, rather than just my regular $10.00 tip, I gave him $140.00. I know it's a lot of money, but he always does a great job and I want him to know how much I appreciate that. AND... Miss Manners said this is the MINIMUM for your hairdresser!

As for kHate, she doesn't even pay for her regular visits so I doubt she tips Jason at Christmas. Gee whiz, I'd just die of embarrassment if I were her.

Marie said...

I'm not sure how Audit works, is it a random pull? Or do you have to have red flags?

Even if Kate did get Audited, could she still get out of it? Can one right-off gifts?

I know the only thing that causes one suspicion is if you are living outside your means and it's noticeable. Several things Kate has that are noticeable.

The day she gets Audited...wow. That be something I'd watch! Yeah, I can be pretty mean sometimes.

Firefly said...

Teresa, glad I could help you start off a good weekend! :)

Out And About In Berks County PA said...

Kate's hair...

If it looked out of this world georgous (sic) and fabulous, there might be some justification for the high cost of a cut and color, even though all she's paying for is the name and location where she gets it done. It's trendy.

However, her hair looks like crap, especially when she pulls it back with a headband and split ends are flying everywhere.

There are wonderful salons in the area who will do a much better job at the fraction of the price. I get mine cut and blonded and I'd match mine against hers any day. She couldn't be afraid of the publicity at a local shop -- she gets her tanning and nails done locally, why not her hair?

But then she couldn't hang out with Jason for bonding after her appointment.

She is a Cow said...

Out And About In Berks County PA said... 10
Kate's hair...

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I totally agree. Kate's hair looked much better before Jason got his hands on it. At least color wise.

Maybe she is afraid to go locally because her reputation. Just one unfortunate slip of the scissors......and Oh Well. LOL

Pulling The Wool said...

kateplusmy8
Hello, tweethearts! What's up? Just checking in post @JasonHueman visit..

Translation:

Nanny nanny boo boo (or poo poo) mediocre tweeties. Look where I am!

She is so full of herself. I don't think that even a psychologist, sociologist or behaviorist could do an accurate assessment of this person.

mtinde said...

Milo is a freak!

Pity Party said...

I looked at KTs twitter IQ. She is now quoting Kate Moss, nothing tastes as good as "thin" feels, changed one word "skinny" and now it is HER motto. Nice going. Hope the teens miss that. I abhor that woman.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I looked at KTs twitter IQ. She is now quoting Kate Moss, nothing tastes as good as "thin" feels, changed one word "skinny" and now it is HER motto. Nice going. Hope the teens miss that. I abhor that woman.

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I saw that earlier and was going to comment. She is disgusting. She is no role model. Keep her away from our teen girls, period.

How about nothing is as good as HEALTHY feels? Thin??? Really, Kate?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Wait, she tweeted to Jason this morning then drove up to NYC this very day??

Wtf!

It's like this woman is rubbing a magic lamp!

Hmm, I feel like going to DisneyWorld today. Anyone???

Marie said...

Personally, I would go to a local private person over a cooperation or someone famous to cut my hair any day. Lady I go to has a small-town old world feel to it still. She knows everybody, she knows their kids, their grandchildren.

Someone famous is just that, someone famous. Nothing personal or individual about a cooperation either. A lot of girls where I live that's all they want to do is cut hair or do nails or a living. It's a good job if you're good at it.

I don't care who Ted Gibson is, he should be ashamed of his work on Kate's hair. I pay only about $18 for a cut and color from my lady and it's great. How much does Kate pay to look like she's wearing spreadable butter again?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I think how the IRS decides who to audit is pretty secretive, but there's a lot on the internet about what puts you at a higher risk for an audit, and KAte sure might hit a lot of them if she's not careful.

High income, lots of write offs, unreported income, home office deduction, drastic change in income, being self employed and filing a schedule C, excessive entertainment deductions.

Uncle Sam, meet Kate.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Maybe Jason is too nice to tell her to buzz off. It's been awhile since he invited her there. She always has to go begging to him. And this time around he seemed kind of evasive, I forgot his exact tweets but didn't he actually mention being BUSY with fashion week? I'm blanking.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

EM I see what you're saying about Kyle. I do watch this show. Maybe it's because I have a soft spot for Kim and Kyle because I loved them on Little House. Kyle had a recurring character. Kim played a child with a short leg once. They were both so sweet. They had problems with their parents, also, Kim's fiance was murdered. Not to mention being a part of the whole Hilton stuff.

I end up sort of feeling sorry for both of them. Kyle doesn't have the substance abuse issues Kim has, but she's not coming from the healthiest place either, and I do genuinely feel they both love each other, but that love is drowning in dysfunction I also firmly believe stems from their famous childhoods and famous family.

What I do see in both of them is women who have a lot of love to give and WANT love back, but need a heck of a lot of therapy to even begin to function in a healthy manner towards each other. Sad.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

SO what is it you admire Sheep? her ability to make millions based on her "talent", or the fact that she is unemployed and begging for the handouts that TLC no longer provides? How can she be both? The princess AND the pauper??????

EM
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So well said. How can a sheep admire KAte for the strong independent woman she is? If she is so strong and independent and can take care of herself and her family, why is she so shamelessly grifting? A strong, independent woman would figure out how to take care of her family on the millions she has made. I'm not saying anyone who ever accepts charity is not strong and independent--but you're not if you have a good job and lots of child support coming in and have made millions.

You can't have it both ways.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I don't know much about Blossom, but I bet Kate would be horrified about her parenting.

I just read this article she wrote about her hands-off parenting style, i.e. they will get there when they get there leave them alone.

I think she sounds like a great mom even though I don't agree with all her methods. I bet Kate would drive her crazy with the way she controls her kids.

I do like the way she doesn't constantly demand her kids say please and thank you and share but instead she says it to THEM when it's appropriate, and they model what she does. It drives me crazy to see kids constantly made to say this or that all day long by parents barking orders in their ear.

http://moms.today.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2011/02/16/6059853-why-i-dont-force-my-kids-to-say-please-or-walk-on-schedule

Westcoaster said...

It's Fashion Week, I highly doubt she and @Jason are hanging together, nor do I think anyone is comping her a hotel room tonight. So the plastic card does come out, not for socks, or gymnastics, but for Mommy. Sooo tired ftom her long kid days (again, kids are gone from 7-4, in bed by 8, do the math Sheeple) - I knew she had to pack a suitcase soon, trip withdrawal was setting in.

Gosselin8Come First said...

Thx @fig&olive 4 another amazing night of AMAZING food& service...you take amazing care of us..u r like no other...&Diego, you rock! XO!


4 mins ago - Twitterrific
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Looks like Kate is amazed... Gush much ?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Oh for God sake the stupid trendy Fig and Olive, how predictable.

Could she at least PRETEND she didn't completely use her own children to get the celebrity lifestyle she wanted? I hope she's wearing socks.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Also naturally she messed up the twitter name.

It's not fig&olive. It's figandolive_nyc

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Rumor is Angelina Jolie is pregnant with twins again. Kate would absolutely die if that's true.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

4 another amazing night of AMAZING food& service...you take amazing care of us..u r like no other...&Diego, you rock!

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I just want them to bring me what I ask for in a reasonable time and make sure it's hot. Refill my drink would be nice too. What is amazzzzing service beyond that, a happy ending maybe?

Anonymous said...

I think she's getting glammed up for fashion week. She is probably trying to gain admission through Jason.

bm

Julianna said...

"Looks like Kate is amazed... Gush much ?"

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Amazing, isn't it? Such an extensive vocabulary. One would think that a best-selling author would be able to pick descriptive words out of some part of her brain that is still functioning.

She's really a piece of work, isn't she? The ego is over the top, and the bragging just spews forth. She's a sad, little wannabe.

tate said...

Amazing, AMAZING, Amazing...Was it amazing??? I guess it was amazing and not mediocre.

Westcoaster said...

Oh for God sake the stupid trendy Fig and Olive, how predictable.

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Exactly. What a twat. Only restaurant in NYC I imagine. Nah, she just needs to be recognized.

Bill's Mom said...

In all honesty, Kate's tweets sound like she hit the "box of wine" early today. Soooo, is she coming back home or heading to the Grammy Awards?

PatK said...

It doesn't seem like Stevie-boy could possibly be making much money off of Kate these days unless she pays him some kind of retainer. I mean how much of a living can you make by occasionally accompanying someone to NYC for a hair appointment/dinner? She surely hasn't been doing many appearances lately. Hope he has other irons in the fire. That alimony isn't going to be cheap.

Amazing, Awesome, Astonishing said...

What's amazing is that she tweeted the restaurant/server. I'm sure they are sitting by their phones right now in anticipation of a tweet from Kate. This, of course, while they are still busy at their mediocre jobs. All of that was for show. She knows that will show up on her Twitter feed, and it's like...eat your heart out, you lowly tweeties!

Marie said...

If Kate's looking for a job, she could take advice from this guy, I mean after all at one point she said she would do such a thing herself if need be:

http://xfinity.comcast.net/video/michael-lohan-applies-for-a-job-at-bk/2195113897/Comcast/2195070285/

Gosselin8ComeFirst said...

Top of the am 2u... Going 2c @JasonHueman 2day...Love&miss him. Hoping he is back from new salon in Fla by now.Miss his laugh& expertise!------------------

Double speak much Kate? Guess she can't admit Jason dumped her butt and she was delegated to another sylist at the salon... They probably drew straws to decide who would do her hair. Poor person with the short straw.

a coincidence is not the same as an accident said...

Sometimes I feel as though I'm living the movie "Groundhog Day" after reading here!
Crazy tweets from Milo? Check. kate grifing for freebies? Check. Troll attacking Admin? Check. kate tweeting crap to show THE WORLD how AMAZING-ISH!!!!! she is, and how AMAZINGLY-ISH AMAZING!!!! her life is!!!!! Check.
If it weren't so pathetic, I'd find it funny.

In the Neighborhood said...

Thx @fig&olive 4 another amazing night of AMAZING food& service...you take amazing care of us..u r like no other...&Diego, you rock! XO!

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As we say here, she sounds like she's schrecklich betrunken, or drunk as a skunk.

AuntieAnn said...

PatK said... 34

It doesn't seem like Stevie-boy could possibly be making much money off of Kate these days unless she pays him some kind of retainer. I mean how much of a living can you make by occasionally accompanying someone to NYC for a hair appointment/dinner?

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Yep, from Bill Gates to Kate Gosselin. How humiliatin' (in cowardly lionspeak).

It's another reason to believe they're a couple. How many more do we need? I think he's pussywhipped.

anger issues kate said...

Well, we were right, Kate's off in NYC., Amazing how she hints on where she is going, with out saying it out right. Tryin to be a big trease. Amazing how broke & poor she try to convince the public, in people, grifts, but manages to go to NYC for her hair, comped or not, Gibson is an expensive place. I laugh at how her hair looks after, SHE LOOKS NO DIFFERENT.

Teresa said...

I hope Diego knew that he has to run when he's serving (helping) her.

She certainly knows how to yank her haters chain. In my life experience, revenge is not sweet, and l have felt sorry when l saw it being dished out. BUT, in Kart's case, l am salivating at the thought. I CANNOT wait till this b*tch is humbled! And l will be waiting...

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I would be pissed if someone were tweeting about me when I was just trying to do my job. Creep! Leave Diego alone, Kate! Show him your appreciation with a big tip, not a tweet.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

In all honesty, Kate's tweets sound like she hit the "box of wine" early today. Soooo, is she coming back home or heading to the Grammy Awards?


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Well, in the NYC episode she drank at her house, all the way there in the limo, and arrived piss drunk. It's a fair assumption that's how she rolls.

Dallas Lady said...

Dear Kate,

I'm sorry, but meals at NY restaurants and hairdos ALSO do not pay your bills, just like coffee creamer, coffee, and socks do not.

Still Enjoying Watching This,
Dallas Lady

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Also, not ever one ounce of appreciation for being able to have every other weekend all to herself. There is no way she could screw around with this kind of thing if Jon didn't take them all weekend long.

anger issues kate said...

Admin: Jason answer someones tweet at his twitter site , that he was back in NYC, but doing fashion week. He did not twitter Kate about that. It's like he was avoiding her. And still is.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I was always taught not to even so much as touch a bare mattress because of locking in sweat and germs and all that crap that will reduce its life. Mattress pad and fitted cover, plus extra plastic-ish cover for kids.

Silly me though I take care of things that were expensive.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Sounds like Jason passed her off on an intern or something. Seems the guy has tried everything in the book to hint to Kate enough is enough. Eventually he will just have to tell her he can't anymore. At what point is Jason allowed to make a living and stop comping people like her?? Why does she think she deserves to TAKE from this guy?

Also, how rude to invite yourself over when someone is obviously very busy.

How rude!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcyOoPDlSuU

Trick Me Up said...

Read Kate's Twitter feed. Walt called the Fig&Olive, talked to Kate, said he was her driver and that she was waiting out front. She said she'd be out in a bit.

Good punk!

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Ehh I really don't want to hear about stuff like that. That's creepy. This is not a site to stalk Kate.

Also what he did might be illegal.

maybe not said...

I don't think it is illegal to call up a restaurant and ask to speak to someone. In questionable taste, maybe, but not illegal.

AuntieAnn said...

You just know she's praying the paps will show up take her pic so she can get her mug on a magazine cover again, like the good ol days.

Anonymous said...

Amazing servie means DIego gushed how how beautiful kate is and how "georgeous" he hair looks.
Fig and Olive yawn. Lemme guess, kate is giggling over her stemless wine glass in AMAZEment.
Predictable. Any sheep wanna ask kate why she darn sock yet travels to NY for pampering? Or is it that she DESERVES it because she is an exhausted, hard working mother of 8. yawn again.
The cost of ONE hair appointment could pay for a year of gymnastics for little leah.

Well at least kate has shiny new hair to flaunt to the laundry girl and babysitter. And the kids can oooh and aahhhhh over it when she gets home and tell her how beautiful she is. See there is something in it for the kids. The can bask in the glow of knowing their mom is AMAZING.

Selfish twit - it's funny. Little things like a trip to NY seem harmless. but when you tally it up with the entire year of "kate only" activities it ends up looking pathetic. What has she done for the kids since filming stopped? NOTHING.
kate has been to
NY several times
Las Vegas
Chicago
Australia
California

Kids? ZERO - BUT EVERYTHING YOU DO IS FOR THE KIDS, RIGHT KATE?


EM

Trick Me Up said...

Ehh I really don't want to hear about stuff like that. That's creepy. This is not a site to stalk Kate.

Also what he did might be illegal.

$$$$$

If it is, she knows exactly who did it because it's all there. Could be, though, she's just tipsy enough not to remember.

"Well, in the NYC episode she drank at her house, all the way there in the limo, and arrived piss drunk. It's a fair assumption that's how she rolls."

$$$$$

So she was drunk by the time she got to the foot-licking ceremony?

Westcoaster said...

I agree about the stalking, but her driver?!? Sorry, a taxi would be mediocre I'm guessing. Open the kids's account just a little bit wider Kate as long as you're playing this weekend. Hope Skeveio brought roses and foam valentines.

anger issues kate said...

Admin: I agree with you 100%. When I was about 4-5, my mother had this woman who we would meet in the park, all the time. She had 9 kids and was about 29, (my Mom was 39), anyway: She invited, my mom & me to her house one afternoon. I was shocked, by how she kept house. You could see where the kids walked, the rug was dirty, and in spots had quarter of an inch dirt. The kids bedroom had mattresses on the floor(no proper beds) with a dirty pillow, and a blanket. Some years later I asked my mom why we never went back to her house: and my mother said, she was very young having children, had too many kids, was always frazzled, and was not a good house keeper. And my Mom said she did not want to pickup or bring home any extra pets. I remember, when we got home, my mother gave me a bath and then took one herself. My mom did ask her why she hardly had any furniture, or bedframes etc: her answer was: children are like animals, they break things, they dirty things, why should I spend money on nice things, and have them ruin it. I have to say the mattresses on the floor remind me of my dogs floor pillows/beds. That is a sad way to think and treat ones children.

Layla said...

I think the "contract til February" means that she still has certain expenses covered by TLC (Steve, hair, etc). They decided to cancel the show in August, so that gives her 6 months of comped services. I don't, however, think this keeps her from working elsewhere. She was pushing hard for a new show/paycheck "like, yesterday" in September, so it sounded like she was ready to jump on anything that was offered.
The fact that she denied that she's under contract--well, if she's available to work elsewhere, then she wasn't really lying when she said she's not. She had to rush and get one more hair appt on TLC's dime while she still could. The cancellation was announced on August 16 or 17, so if TLC gave her 6 months, then she needed to hustle if she wanted to take advantage of TLC one more time.
It's so funny that she's so full of herself for going to NYC for hair appointments. What a hick!
She wouldn't last a day in my town. We eat hicks for breakfast here.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

But isn't it illegal to impersonate someone? He didn't just call up the restaurant and ask to speak to her. He posed as her driver. It's also illegal to stalk someone.

He's walking a fine line.

AuntieAnn said...

Is this Walt guy someone who used to post on here?

maybe not said...

Well, I kind of doubt that a single phone call qualifies as stalking, and he hasn't impersonated any specific person. I think you'd have a lot of trouble taking any action based on what he reported in his Twitter feed.

He didn't make any threats, didn't try to get her to meet him, didn't try to grab her or throw her into a car or anything even close to that. He punked her, that's all.

Now if he did it as a matter of habit, then maybe there would be a case. But one joke phone call? I doubt it.

Philly Fan said...

This person is now calling pizza shops to have a pizza sent to her hotel. Now THIS is creepy.

Philly Fan said...

AuntieAnn said... 60

Is this Walt guy someone who used to post on here?

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Walt is Kelly, who used to post here.

Jane said...

Walt is saying he also confirmed that Kate's staying at the Essex House where I doubt there's a room under $300 a night, and that would be one overlooking an elevator shaft. No way will Katie stay in the cheapest room. So -- driver to/from the city, hair, food (if she eats), room-service, hotel. It's gotta cost her minimum $2,000. Darning socks sure does put money in the bank!

I'm in the city often for work and Fig & Olive is considered a 'bridge and tunnel' restaurant - it's not one that NYers visit. She shows her insecurities by continually revisiting it. NYC is filled with glorious food -- good grief, try something new!

maybe not said...

You know, this idiot should NOT be tweeting where she is, or making it obvious that she is back in NYC. Her greedy desire to be envied by her fans really IS going to get her in trouble one day.

Smarter people who use the internet 1) keep their personal business off it and 2) tweet or post about where they have been AFTER they return.

AuntieAnn said...

Philly fan - thank you. I thought so but wasn't sure. I thought he was creepy and a braggard when he was here, but for an ex-cop (if he really was) to be doing this now is not only creepy but scary.

maybe not said...

Unless she has got someone living in the orphanage when she is not there, she is also advertising that no one is home at a house whose address is all over the internet.

Maybe that is not a risk. There is probably nothing to steal except a red beating spoon. It is still pretty stupid behavior.

Jane said...

It'll be interesting to see how this plays out. He's now having a variety of food sent to the hotel for her, some with Steve's name on it. Creepy and scary yet oddly amusing.

Admin, he must be paying for this (if it's true) with a credit card which means he can be tracked. What are the repercussions -- this is NYC, and the police have bigger fish to deal with than a crazed non-fan of a Z-list celeb.

Trick Me Up said...

underwalt
@suzew718 @kateplusmy8 Just ordered a Paneer Pakoda from the Curry Kitchen. They promised they'd put a valentine note on it.

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He ordered a meal and says they are delivering it right now. This may be walking a fine line, unless he paid for it.

maybe not said...

Paying to have food delivered to someone who doesn't know it is coming is, likewise, undoubtedly no crime.

Paying to have 4,000 pizzas delivered on someone's lawn, or to have 4 delivered without pre-payment, that can be a crime.

Sending a gift to a hotel room, not so much. If this happens every time Kate takes another of her expensive trips to NYC, then it might become actionable. In the absence of a clear threat, though, it might be very difficult to stop it.

SHE could stop it by NOT tweeting where she is. This is really HER responsibility.

Gosselin8ComeFirst said...

AuntieAnn said... 53
You just know she's praying the paps will show up take her pic so she can get her mug on a magazine cover again, like the good ol days.

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I completely agree. Why else all of the tweets where she is going and eating dinner?

Bad Moon Rising said...

maybe, 70: SHE could stop it by NOT tweeting where she is. This is really HER responsibility.

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Exactly. She's all but putting out a road map where to find her. She needs to shut up, but she can't because she needs to brag. She can't have it both ways.

NH, Susan said...

OK folks, this is snark from Underwalt, "Kelly"


Nothing more.

Anonymous said...

Jason replied he loves her too but her hair is too short. So..seems to me Jason loves the attention...but had another stylist do her hair.
GAG Sickening watching her skate by on freebies her whole life. Even sicker is the people who buy into her schtick.

EM

Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said...

Anonymous said... 74

Jason replied he loves her too but her hair is too short. So..seems to me Jason loves the attention...but had another stylist do her hair.
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Jason tweeted:

JasonHueman
@Kateplusmy8 loves seeing you! Too short :(
3 hours ago

meaning the "visit" was too short:


Kateplusmy8 Kate Gosselin
Hello, tweethearts! What's up? Just checking in post @JasonHueman visit..

Philly Fan said...

Auntie Ann...you're welcome. Yes, they are one and the same.

Two thoughts...
1. If Kate has any smarts, she wouldn't even accept a delivery if she knew she didn't order it, much less take it into her room, open it and eat it.
2. If this is to punk her, why tweet about it before hand? Kate reads her tweets, and knowing that something is coming kind of defeats the whole purpose, whatever that might be.

Anonymous said...

#67. I agree. There are websites that troll facebook and twitter looking for people who are not home or on vacation. The post it and the person address so criminals know what house are open to steal from.

It;s odd that kate brags about her haircuts, yet never tweets pics of them. For someone who like the sheep falling over themselves to compliment her..I always found it strange she never posts her haircuts.

EM

maybe not said...

Philly Fan said... 76

If this is to punk her, why tweet about it before hand? Kate reads her tweets, and knowing that something is coming kind of defeats the whole purpose, whatever that might be.

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Who knows what the point was, but it has been pretty clearly shown that Kate tweets much more frequently when she is with her kids, and wants to avoid interacting with them.

She reads the tweets, but probably not as they occur when she is not with the kids. She may not have eaten at fig and olive with her pink phone in one hand. She may be sharing her hotel room with someone other than her phone.

She may only see the tweets when she is back home again, or if she ends up alone on the way back from NYC.

Several people have suggested that this might be a wake up call for her to STFU. That may be the point, and it is not a bad one.

PS, she has tweeted in the past saying that she feeds the children treats fans send. Her grifting doesn't seem to have any limits.

Bah Bah Black Sheep said...

NH, Susan said... 73

OK folks, this is snark from Underwalt, "Kelly"


Nothing more.

________

Are you saying that he really didn't call her at the restaurant and didn't order food to be sent to hotel?
If so, how do you know that?

Anonymous said...

So, jason did the hair? kate is a good grifter, I'll giver that. Maybe that's what the sheeple respect about her. They wish they could shamelessly grift things too. I really think the sheep covet kates life, while the non fans are appalled by it.

EM

Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said...

I highly doubt Jason did her hair, probably just "visited" with her when she was there. She didn't even know if Jason was in NYC as of this am.

Bah Bah Black Sheep said...

PS, she has tweeted in the past saying that she feeds the children treats fans send. Her grifting doesn't seem to have any limits.

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Ah, but that's her kids, that's not her! She probably let them taste it first!

She tweeted her thanks to the restaurant for amazing service three hours ago; two hours ago Walt confirmed that she was still at the restaurant, when the phone call was made. Something doesn't make sense, or am I reading this wrong? Did she tweet the restaurant while she was still there, before the meal was over?

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Ick please stop talking about this.

I get this weird feeling it's just something being done for attention. And we're playing right into it.

It's True said...

Kate's tweeting was certainly done for attention, and she got it.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I'm talking about the prankster, but yes Kate's tweets were done for attention too.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

One joke the police will tell you deal with it. But calling, sending several unsolicited food gifts to a hotel room, etc. You're playing seriously with stalking/harassment, especially in connection with a twitter account that clearly hates her.

I wouldn't go there, and I don't think we should even talk about it.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

I was looking for the post I did on body image in light of Kate's stupid thin tweet today and found the tweet where she addressed the comped hair:

Kateplusmy8
never. Always comped. Wouldn't dream of spending that kind of $ on hair!!??!

Also, here is the post on body image the first time she tweeted about never being too thin BLECH you suck KAte.
http://www.realitytvkids.com/2011/09/reality-tv-stars-their-impressionable.html

New York State of Mind said...

Kateplusmy8
never. Always comped. Wouldn't dream of spending that kind of $ on hair!!??!
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She also said somewhere that the haircuts/colors were given to her at a discount. Which is it...comped or discounted?

Zoe said...

Has anyone seen the story "Wisconsin Boy Saves Grandma's House From Foreclosure" from ABC?
http://gma.yahoo.com/wisconsin-boy-saves-grandmas-house-foreclosure-185349531--abc-news.html
People are going on and on about what a great thing he did, but to me it was just begging for money using the internet. What am I missing? Is this different than Kate's grifting?

Mel said...

She probably doesn't know the difference between comped and discounted, and is using them interchangably.

Susan said...

Kate Moss's motto "nothing tastes as good as skinny feels" is often used by the "pro-anorexics" as THEIR motto. Google "pro-anorexic" and you will see what this horrifying movement is all about - websites which actually promote anorexia as being the ultimate way to be. It is absolutely appalling that Kate Gosselin is using a similar motto. She obviously has no awareness at all as to what it means.

Article about Kate Moss's motto

Wikipedia about pro-anorexia (Kate Moss is also mentioned here)

Kate Moss slogan banned by the Advertising Standards Authority

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Wow! Thanks Susan. So some advertising authority in the UK banned Kate Moss's nothing tastes as good as skinny feels slogan from shirts.

Kate's PLAGIARIZED motto changes one word, skinny to thin. Same difference.

Especially knowing so many of her fans are teen girls, I find this despicable.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Has anyone seen the story "Wisconsin Boy Saves Grandma's House From Foreclosure" from ABC?
http://gma.yahoo.com/wisconsin-boy-saves-grandmas-house-foreclosure-185349531--abc-news.html
People are going on and on about what a great thing he did, but to me it was just begging for money using the internet. What am I missing? Is this different than Kate's grifting?

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Zoe, forgive me for thinking this might be a shit-stirring comment. It's completely different than Kate's grifting. Kate is an able bodied woman who could work, who gets child support payments, who should have saved millions that she made, who apparently has plenty of money to jaunt off to NYC when the mood strikes.

The grandmother was struggling financially and about to have her house auctioned off. She was in other words NEEDY.

You're SUPPOSED to help the needy. That's not "grifting." You're not supposed to help the wealthy lying about being needy.

Grifting to me implies that you don't need something or could afford to pay for it yourself, but you just want something for free. It's very definition suggests money made dishonestly. Yup, that's Kate. Dishonest is not that lovely young boy helping his grandmother.

Sleepless in Seattle said...

Kate's PLAGIARIZED motto changes one word, skinny to thin. Same difference.

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I wonder if Kate ever saw a picture of Karen Carpenter in her last days and thinks that she looked georgous.

IMO said...

Dishonest is not that lovely young boy helping his grandmother.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

No, shamelessness is what that 'lovely' boy was tapping into.

What's the lesson he learned? Ask, no BEG, for something and you get it. Where were his parents?

Charity should come from the heart. The GIVER'S heart. Asking for handouts is no different than a begger on the street.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Or, maybe it will teach the boy that someday when someone else is in need, he will pay it forward and help them out. We should help each other.

I personally don't think all beggers on the street are doing something wrong. This economy is horrible. 60 Minutes did a great piece a couple months ago about perfectly hardworking people resorting to begging while trying to get back on their feet. WHy is this wrong?

We should help each other out when we're in need to the extent we are in need. This does not include giving socks to a rich person living in a huge house sending her kids to private school who is able bodied and could get a real job.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Sparhawk, who has served as a foster parent to hundreds of Wisconsin children, also found herself unable to work after complications from eye surgery and severe asthma, making it even more difficult to make up what she owed.

&&&&

She's a foster parent who truly cannot work anymore. She went into debt trying to fix her roof, not buying hair extensions. The boy was asking for money to help out her, not himself. I don't see a problem with it and I don't see how it relates to what Kate does whatsoever.

Until Kate gives back to her community like this woman did, I don't want to hear about one more pair of free socks sent her way, blech.

Sleepless in Seattle said...

You're SUPPOSED to help the needy. That's not "grifting." You're not supposed to help the wealthy lying about being needy.

_________________________

Absolutely. For the life of me, I can't understand that the sheeple think that this is perfectly acceptable. If they were in Kate's shoes, would they do the same thing? I think that the answer is "yes," and that just shows the cloth from which they were cut. They would exploit their kids, they would spend their kids' money, and they would get whatever they could for free because, hey, if someone is dumb enough to keep sending socks, candies, coffee makers, then why refuse them?

Many of them don't know any better. Kate, on the other hand, should know better and knows exactly what she is doing. She is their role model, and she can do no wrong, even if it means being dishonest to get what she wants.

Anonymous said...

Why does kate make her kids use used towels. Others wipe their butts & she makes them reuse those towels??? Thats just gross & nasty!

silimom said...

Sleepless said..."Many of them don't know any better. Kate should know better."
****
Well, I guess my question is why should Kate know any better? My understanding is that she is very much like her father. (Locals, please feel free to correct me.) If this is a learned behavior, this sense of arrogance and entitlement, then it stands to reason she wouldn't know any better because she wasn't taught to.

SwingsandRoundabouts said...

Don't forget Kate's motto: "Who am I to say no?"
She will not refuse anything given to her. She will never put her hand in her own pocket if she can help it, especially if it concerns her children. Deep pockets, short arms.

Zoe said...

Admin, thank you for being gentle in your response to me. I am not a sheeple and was not shit stirring.

You're right, his grandmother had given a lot to the community and was now needing financial help. But this story is still leaving a bad taste in my mouth.

There are multiple websites where anyone can tell their story of need and ask for help, and many are asking for themselves. And there are people responding to these requests. "Ask and you shall receive" seems to be more and more peoples' motto for getting through life.

I've become such a cynic that it's hard for me to stomach anyone's begging.

During all these rough times none of my friends or family has lost their job. And the only people I've personally known that lost their homes to foreclosure were people that took equity loans out to prop up their fancy lifestyles. Or the one very good friend that tried to become a landlord, failed miserably, and just walked away from both properties. My own sibling will surely join this list in another year because of an "interest only" mortgage and uncontrolled spending. (My parents and I were enabling this spending behavior with financial bailouts for several years. Do we let them hit rock bottom next year? I'm struggling with it.)

The news story about people making a decent living begging on the streets of our nearest city just fed my cynicism.

I hope my rambling makes some sense.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Zoe, yes you make sense. I'm with you, a lot of people are begging when there are other ways to pick themselves up and dust themselves off.

I've changed my opinion since my dad was laid off, softened somewhat. The man has done everything he possibly can to get back out there. He's applied to hundreds of jobs, gone to job fairs, gone to the VA, the works. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. Thankfully my mom has a good job and they're fine, but if not for my mom, I wouldn't be upset if he had to beg once in awhile to make ends meet. It is rough out there.

I still see it as an apple and oranges thing. We're talking about people truly in need and whether it's okay to beg. Okay, that's one question open for debate. Kate is so far from truly in need it's laughable. There just isn't any question that certainly someone like her should stop taking freebies.

Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said...

Admin, we're not allowed to discuss what went on on Twitter last night??

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Tweet I guess you can discuss it if you want but the guy just wants attention and he watches this place like a hawk, twists around everything we say, and tried to shit stir here last night too. That's all the proof I need he just did it for attention. He's unstable. I'd prefer you not but if you really want to.

Katie Cry-duh said...

News flash, Kreider: don't know that anyone would consider you thin. In fact, you're quite thick all over. The weight you've lost appears to have been courtesy of a suction catheter, and you still have cellite everywhere and remain doughy looking...skinny fat, it's called. But it's your God-given frame that you cannot escape. You are built like a man with bolted on tits. Your legs are stumpy and despite running ten miles every other day (ha!), your saddlebags still persist whenever you don't wear heels. Your legs and belly have deflated scrotal-type skin from all the lipo. Add to that your oversized horse face and I'm not sure you should be crowing about being thin, darling. You're just pathetic.

Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said...

Admin, I see your point. Didn't follow it last night because I'm skeptical just as you are. Was hoping I'd find some kind of confirmation one way or the other when I checked in this am. But I guess there's no way to know for sure.

Oh well, no problem.

Layla said...

anger issues kate said... 47
Admin: Jason answer someones tweet at his twitter site , that he was back in NYC, but doing fashion week. He did not twitter Kate about that. It's like he was avoiding her. And still is.
**********
What was she going to do if she showed up and he wasn't there? We don't even know if they did her hair this time. If they are busy with fashion week, they may have made her sit around (because you know they couldn't get her to leave) and then perhaps joined her for dinner--or not. Funny thing is, she usually mentions her hair getting done ("love me blonde"), but no actual mention of it this time. Also, she apparently went to Fig and Olive, but no mention of Jason or anyone else going with her. For all we know, it was just Kate and Steve. Interesting......
I was wondering how long she could stand to be at home, taking care of the kids and the house, without losing her mind. Apparently the answer is 3 weeks. Out of sheer desperation, she went to NYC (uninvited) just to get away and try to get her ego stroked a bit. I wonder if it worked.

Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said...

Sorry, I don't get all the confusion about the hair thing. Jason tweeted Kate twice yesterday.

I'd bet my bottom dollar Kate made an appointment, then bragged to her tweeties she was getting her hair done, dropped Jason's name saying she didn't know if he was in NYC.

Jason tweeted "I'm here."

Someone else did her hair.

Layla said...

Hee-hee, I wonder if she popped up for fashion week on purpose. Hoping someone will spot her and invite her to make a guest appearance at a show.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Jason said something like it was too short. Sounds to me like he popped in for a huge and hi, then had to leave.

Gosh she's so rude to dump herself on him when he's this busy.

NEW POST!

Twittering is for Idiots said...

I'll only make this one comment about what went on last night.
There is something wrong with that man. Shame on each and every one of the hate-twitterers who didn't call him out and continue to tweet with him.
Ex-Nurse summed it up very well when she compared the difference in people who post here and those that never go a day without twitter.

Realitytvkids.com ~ Administrator said...

Twittering, yes spot on.

It is my desire that this blog disassociate from that kind of thing, which includes not even talking about it.

Jumping In said...

Kate is trading on her celebrity in everything she does.
Whether its hair, free meals, or cruises, Kate expects
these things because of her (former) fame. She is a
one-woman grifting machine,who believes in her twisted
mind she is due these things because she is unique
and special.

She has morphed herself from a frumpy mother of 8 into
a 'smokin' hot' marathon running, Koala loving, sock
darning sideshow, all in an effort to gain any attention she
can.

We have many more years of Kate coming our way, she is
utterly relentless in her pursuit of her former status. She
has transcended the fact she had 8 kids, she is now
trading solely on her looks, her overall fabulousness, and
her firm belief that getting skinny is the last piece of the
puzzle. Kate is flying solo, and we all know she prefers
it that way anyway. The kids have always been props,
and she displays nothing but glee when they are
out the door or in someone else's care. Yep, many
more years of Kate ahead! I'll be typing on my iPad
while sitting in a rocking chair before Kate gives up
her sad, pathetic pursuit of fame.

Robin's Nest said...

Twittering@112.

Exactly! Seriously wrong. Admin was right. Attention. I was watching and hoping she wouldn't take the bait and she didn't. Good. That kind of antagonism/confrontation doesn't deserve a response. Nobody would win. High roads are always good.

TLC stinks said...

Sounds like Jason did not do her hair. I wonder if she had to pay for the first time.

Then she and Stevie had dinner. A bodyguard to get your hair done. Really?

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