The pursuit of happiness in hard times
Many of the great moments of 1940s House involved watching the Hymers experience the hardships of life in the 1940s while still finding a way to create fun and joy during long days of rations, bomb raids and frightening news of war. The Hymers truly took the experience to heart, and the lessons they learned that continued even after the experience were inspiring.
For fun during "wartime," they took a "holiday at home," by going on a picnic nearby and visiting a local cave. Holidays at home were encouraged by the British government, because traveling far was too dangerous, expensive, and would clog the roads the military needed.
After it was over, Ben and Thomas, the children, talked about creating fun without the T.V. or Playstation, such as creating their own board game or building a treehouse. Granny Lynn writes more handwritten letters, and started shopping more locally. She said she had managed to cut her grocery bill in half. Grandpa Michael restored an old car. Kirstie, a single mom whose husband left her, grew much more independent as a result of the experience. Today's hard economic times are not nearly as bad as what Great Britain endured in the 1940s, but the same lessons of creating lemons out of lemonade still apply.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 400 of 949 Newer› Newest»I think that nurse is a sad example of how not everyone likes the spotlight, fame or attention. In fact most people I think are happy to live a quiet life, work and raise their family. When this happens it can be devastatingly distributive to their comfort zone of privacy.
butterfly, you aren't kidding about HIPAA (sp?). It is taken very seriously. I once was trying to pay for a doctor visit for a friend and the office wouldn't even confirm she had made an appointment yet, citing that law. I vaguely said something like, 'Oh, shoot, I wish I could get this done.' I was more thinking out loud and already planning to call the friend to confirm. The woman got very curt and said she had explained the law to me, she didn't appreciate my manipulation, conversation was over, and hung up on me! I was livid.....called and got her voice mail and blasted her and then felt bad and called and told her voice mail I was very sorry for my outburst, but I was mostly talking to myself, I'm not smart enough to be that manipulative. Dang! Obviously GBR has different standards (of health care too, from what I understand from expats working over there).
Why am I not surprised that kHate buys herself gifts to open on Xmas?! But seriously, WHO DOES THAT!!?? OMG. She is a lost cause.
Fidos mommy,
If your house smells like kibble and the dog smells, I might consider switching foods. I used to use Innova when I lived in the States, but up here it is just too expensive. It is more than double what I used to pay.
Ask your vet or ask at the pet store, most grocery store food is very low quality and could make your pet smellier. My dog gets a bath about every 3 months and she doesn't smell too doggy. She eats a middle of the road quality food. Costco has some excellent grain free food, that isn't expensive at all.
Hey wise ladies!! I need some serious help!
I am stumped as to what to buy my step mom for Xmas. She is so hard to shop for :(
She likes to read, but I can never get it right. doesn't help I am so far away that I can't keep up with what she has already read, or who her favourite authors are...
She doesn't like anything too serious though. Any ideas? please?
Who would actually kill themselves over such a nothing thing, after all, no one was harmed in the end.
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This was the prank hear 'round the world. The. World.
Brits are very proper and buttoned up. They are probably affected more by shame than we are in the U.S. I've come to think that honor and civility have gone the way of the dinosaur here.
The royals are revered. Kate is the woman who will bear Diana's grandchild.
I just don't think we get the levity of the social/medical/privacy breach on this side of the Pond.
In and of itself, the faux pas could have pushed this woman to harm herself. Regardless of her prior mental issues, if any, I know this: but for the fact the those DJs perpetrated this childish, wanton prank, she'd be alive today, her husband would not be a widower and her children would have a mother.
Of this I'm sure.
Bearswife, how about these?
http://www.amazon.com/Light-Readers-Reading-Glasses-Stylish/dp/B006MIVFWG/ref=sr_1_12?ie=UTF8&qid=1354912548&sr=8-12&keywords=reader+lights
"I rally can't agree that discussing someone's private medical issues is a nothing thing. As a medical professional you would guard confidentiality wth your life and would be floored to have breathed it. Anyone who has a duty of confidentiality in their profession knows what I mean."
And yet, knowing how serious privacy issues are taken by most hospitals, doesn't it seem strange to you, that the nurse/receptionist, wasn't fired or punished by the hospital in any way? Makes one think that what she imparted was very benign, like maybe saying "Kate is doing okay today, or better today?"
Bearswife?
What a about a cookbook? Is she intersted in cooking? Or how a bout a magazine subscription? I know sounds odd, but I got Runners World as a gift and I loved it, and getting it every month its like the gift that keeps giving.
Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 1
I think that nurse is a sad example of how not everyone likes the spotlight, fame or attention. In fact most people I think are happy to live a quiet life, work and raise their family. When this happens it can be devastatingly distributive to their comfort zone of privacy.
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So true. I think had it been me, I dont know if I could have handled the pressure either. The entire country- and much of the world, was talking about her role in the slip up. That is a lot for one woman to handle. This is so sad. How can her children grow up, seeing the roayl baby in the news, reminding them of their mother? This story has consequences that will continue for years.
Something else to mull over... It hasn't yet been confirmed that the woman committed suicide. It could have been an accident, a seizure of some kind, or a heart attack that coincided with the attention the prank call got. There is always the possibility the two are not related, it is not out of the realm of possibilites.
Bearswife said... 3
How about a gift card to Barnes & Noble? And also a booklight?
I told my daughter I wanted a booklight, especially after trying to read with a flashlight during the power outage I entailed during Hurricane Sandy.
That's the thing Kate is carrying Diana's grandchild. A living piece of her. The Brits adored Diana. This baby means everything to so many. William and Kate feel to many like their own son and daughter in law. They have earned their respect. Regardless whether that is right to hold then so highly, I think most Brits would feel absolutely shattered to have disrupted their happiness in the slightest way.
No, as a matter of fact I don't think it's strange she wasn't fired. The problem was not with the individual nurse but with hospital protocol. They obviously did not anticipate how to handle it when the queen called. That's an administrative problem not a individual nurse problem. She thought she was doing nothing wrong by talking to the queen. An honest mistake. It wasn't like she viciously gave info to a tabloid and the hospital said no big deal. Then not firing her would have been odd and that would have been purely her fault. People shouldn't necessarily be fired for administration's failure to impose good policies. In other words it was an unintentional act with no policy in place to guide her and typically people shouldn't be fired for that.
I thought it was quite classy of Kate and William not to file any kind of complaint. I'm sure they were upset, but even they too seemed to realize it was an honest mistake. A huge one, but an honest one. The nurse probably took it so much harder than they took it. Like a doctor terribly upset he couldn't cure a patient, meanwhile the patient is patting their hand and saying it's okay I'll be okay. Sometimes that's how it works.
aprilgambrel15
I've watched nothing but @Kateplusmy8 for 3 days straight
Such fulfilling lives these sheeple lead. Nothing like three days straight of Kate to educate, enlighten, broaden your learning experiences...
Can't get the bar set much lower than this.
Bearswife,
Consider her age and what was happening in the world when she was in her 20's. Find a book that talks about the events. For example, when I was in my 20's women's rights, civil rights, Vietnam, Kennedy brothers, Jackie's fashion, etc. were happening. Okay, you probably get the idea I'm going for. Or another thought, get something from that era like cookbook for the 1970's, concert tickets for a band from that era.
My mother came of age in the 1940's and I got her toy from that time. It was such an unusual gift to give that I was so nervous when she unwrapped the gift. She loved it, and loves it to this day. She's 82 now.
I guess what I'm getting at is think of something she would have enjoyed in her youth.
Bearswife -- How about a gift card to Amazon or Barnes & Noble. She could register it online and order whatever she wanted to read.
Twittering And Twattering said... 12
aprilgambrel15
I've watched nothing but @Kateplusmy8 for 3 days straight
Such fulfilling lives these sheeple lead. Nothing like three days straight of Kate to educate, enlighten, broaden your learning experiences...
Can't get the bar set much lower than this.
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haha!! That's like the Gremlins. Don't feed them after midnight. All these little tweeties forcefeeding themselves lessons from Kate so they can be just like her. Greedlins.
Oh what a world! What a world!
Bearswife -- To expand on my idea of a gift card. How about the gift card and some snacks or beverages to enjoy while reading. Does she like teas or coffee or hot chocolate? You could get her a nice mug and some assorted flavored teas or coffees or hot chocolate to enjoy while she read. Or if she likes wine, a pretty wine glass and a bottle of her favorite wine. A reading light is a good idea, too.
OT re: Holiday giving
I have lived in several New England states where we do a Yankee Swap.
No religious connotations.
Everyone who wants to participate buys or makes a gift under a specified amount (say $10).
Gifts are wrapped. When the time comes, each participant picks a number.
Number 1 picks first.
Number 2 can keep what s/he picks or swap it for number one's gift.
Each subsequent number can keep the gift they picked or swap it for any lower number's.
When all is said and done, Number 1 can keep what s/he picked or swap it for anyone else's.
Once I got number 1, and was able to snag some homemade pepper jelly and fabulous cheese that the recipient tried to "hide" (I had
originally chosen it and got "swapped"). I "swapped it back. :)
It's a hoot.
I don't think that's a regional thing everywhere I've been does that from east, Midwest, south to west! I've also heard it called white elephant or dirty Santa. And yes it's really fun.
We didn't do it in NJ or NY, that's why I thought it was a New England thing. Thanks!
Bearswife,
Many grocery stores with floral depatments these days have a boquet of the month deal you can get for six months or a year. Kind of nice to look forward to that each month, and our store is really good about swapping out arrangements. Either keep the flowers for that month to yourself or gift them to someone that month. Just another thought.
yeah we are doing that white elephant here in GA
We feed our bully Natural Balance limited ingredient kibble. Bulldogs can be smelly and he doesn't have a doggy odor with this food as he did with others we'd tried (his poop is also nice and compact). NB makes wet, dry and rolls and since it's all made by the same company we can add a little wet or one of the rolls without any tummy upset. His kibble is a mixture of the venison, bison and rabbit formula. Our vet suggested it for him when we were having problems with soft stools. Seems that the really expensive food we were feeding him was too high in protein and he wasn't digesting it well. NB is still a very good food but the % of protein is lower so he digests it well. As my vet said, bulldogs tend to be an inactive breed (an understatement if I ever heard one) and don't need as much protein. I love the rolls of food because we can take the individual ones with us when we travel and break them up in his food to entice him to eat (not that he needs much enticing). It works for us.
Kate probably authorized a release to William and immediate family. I'm sure the palace was authorized since they are the ones handling the whole thing and need to know for PR purposes and so on. It's not that you can never discuss a patient, it's that you can't discuss without permission. I talk to doctors and nurses all the time but it's with my clients' permission.
April Gambrel @aprilgambrel15
I've watched nothing but @Kateplusmy8 for 3 days straight
McWilliams @melhoobs
@aprilgambrel15 @kateplusmy8 you know you'll never get that time back, right? Even Kate couldn't want that.
@Kateplusmy8
@melhoobs @aprilgambrel15 actually, if it makes her happy, then I say GO FOR IT:)
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Kate's all for brain rot. She has a good case of it herself.
You know what I don't think has been said before that recently hit me? Kate always said the kids just play in front of the cameras don't notice anything, that she works. If they don't notice them were just playing, how can they miss them so much. If it was nothing disruptive or different about how you normally live what's to miss?
Kate just retweeted this from Donald Trump:
RT @realDonaldTrump People ask me what I do in my free time. The answer--I don't have any. ME EITHER! YAY TO BEING BUSY ALL THE TIME:)
Seriously, the man runs a huge corporation and she compares herself to him?? She just spent the whole day on twitter. She just gets sadder and sadder...
How does she think working women do it if she barely scrapes by? She is an abomination. What did that gal call her, something like vapid black hole of fame? Darn can't remember.
msgoody2shoes21
@Kateplusmy8 Hi Kate! What's for dinner tonight?
Depending on what it is, will she show up at Kate's gate and expect to be fed?
Why do these sheeple need to know this? Wouldn't you be embarrassed to ask such a trivial question and expect an answer? WHO CARES?
Kate should tweet that she doesn't know what Katherine has prepared for tonight! :) Now THAT would be funny.
haha!! That's like the Gremlins. Don't feed them after midnight. All these little tweeties forcefeeding themselves lessons from Kate so they can be just like her. Greedlins.
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And don't get them wet! Remember the cute little Gremlin, Gizmo? I wanted a live one in the worst way, got the dancing toy instead! Then I got a kitten and named him, yep, Gizmo (Gizzy).
She is an abomination. What did that gal call her, something like vapid black hole of fame?
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I don't remember, either, but "vapid black hole of shame" also works.
Thanks for the dog advice. Sorry I'm a little late getting back on - I'm coordinating a GS event tonight and then had to pick up the kids.
He's a 15 month old Lab/Pitbull Mix. He just has a funky odor. It goes away when he's groomed but the vet said to only do that once a month and that bathing him once a week wasn't really good for his skin. It's not bad per se, it's just sort of musty/musky (and yes, he's been fixed). He's an absolute love and thinks he's a 60 pound lap dog. The biggest issue we're facing right now is that he chews EVERYTHING, especially when he hasn't been exercised.
I think I'm just going to try airing out the house as much as possible and vacuuming/mopping as well. That seems to help. I was just hoping for some miracle product that would miraculously take the smell away because, well, I'm a now girl and have trouble waiting sometimes.
He's got mites right now and so his skin is really itchy. He drags himself across the floor on his belly to itch himself so I'm sure that's getting his odor/dog pheromones into the carpet even more than usual. He's on Ivermectin and his last skin scraping came back negative so I'm hoping at his next appointment we'll get the all clear.
As for his dog food, he eats Nutro Natural Choice and the reason I can smell it so strongly right now is that we had to bring the container inside because the raccoons figured out how to open it. I'll look into the Innova if it's odorless.
Regarding this poor nurse: What is really sad is now her life is going to be examined in microscopic detail by the press most likely.
One thing I wonder - I know William is VERY protective of Kate, because of what he saw his mother go through and obviously the way she died. Do you think that he may have exploded while at the hospital when he learned about the prank call and word got down to her?
I'm not saying William is to blame, just that if Britains take the Royal Family so seriously, so much to heart that word of his reaction may have contributed to whatever shame and guilt she was already feeling?
Mites, poor baby. Labs IMO although wonderful dogs really do have that dog smell. I used to feed Nutro too the odor is a bit worse. If you are going to change his food on him please do it very slowly.
No the solution isn't more baths. Once a month is plenty and I try to go longer if I can if he isn't a stink pot. In the winter I try to stretch it to 6 weeks. His skin gets so dry after bathing.
I'm sure William did freak. Not that he didn't have a right to. He did when someone took pictures of her topless. That would make anyone feel awful to know they upset someone who lost his mother because of a similar privacy invasion.
Interesting new spin in the media regarding Ms. Saldanha. They now are emphasizing that her death was "unexplained" and that it was "at first reported to be a suicide".
So it could be that she simply passed away from natural causes and everyone is jumping to the conclusion that she killed herself.
That would be one hell of a coincidence. Even if it was, say, a heart attack, extreme stress can contribute. Typically in the US deaths are unknown until a coroner gives the official ruling. It may just be protocol no matter how obvious it was. Typically 46 year olds dont fall over dead.
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And don't get them wet! Remember the cute little Gremlin, Gizmo? I wanted a live one in the worst way, got the dancing toy instead! Then I got a kitten and named him, yep, Gizmo (Gizzy).
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Aww Gizzy. What a cute name.
If those little guys had been real everyone would have wanted one. I got a kick out of Stripe. He was hilariously deviant. I think I may have to watch that movie again. It IS a Christmas movie after all. lol!
Twittering And Twattering said... 29
I had a kitten named "Gizmo" also. She was only 2 weeks old when we found her and she reminded me so much of Gizmo from Gremlins. Her nickname was also Gizzy. She lived to the ripe old age of 17. She was my fourth and last cat. I still miss her.
kateplusmy8
@CJWhodunit @MiloandJack @braez @amazon I EVEN ordered some stuff 4 me so my kids c me open stuff 2..Small things so I have 'surprises' 2 :)
This makes no sense. If they don't do Santa then do the kids know she surprises herself? If they don't do Santa then how does his workshop get in her bedroom? She really likes to mess with their heads doesn't she.
Silimom,this is gross, but does your dog need to have his anal glands expressed? They can exude a powerful smell. Also ear infections smell terrible.My Zoe used to get them and it was almost impossible to be near her until the meds could clear them up.
This may not be a good solution for you, but dogs who are raw fed, a natural no kibble diet, rarely have much of a doggie smell, in my experience.Next best is grain free food.
Hope this helps!
PS. does this conversation count as Doggerel?
butterfly said... 7
Bearswife?
What a about a cookbook? Is she interested in cooking? Or how a bout a magazine subscription?
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Or a magazine subscription about cooking. This site always runs deals:
http://www.discountmags.com/promos/yum/441/s
Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 25
You know what I don't think has been said before that recently hit me? Kate always said the kids just play in front of the cameras don't notice anything, that she works. If they don't notice them were just playing, how can they miss them so much. If it was nothing disruptive or different about how you normally live what's to miss?
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AHA! Good point.
I don't think that Kate is aware of what the heck flys out of her mouth.
Good luck to anyone trying to understand her.
out of her mouth.
SOMEONEELSE@catthomas007
@Kateplusmy8 @realdonaldtrump Wow you would be great on Celebrity Apprentice! You have great organizational skills and a winning personality
SOMEONEELSE@catthomas007
@Kateplusmy8 how about it? Would you consider appearing on Celebrity Apprentice? Your fans would love it!
Kate Gosselin@Kateplusmy8
@catthomas007 I have actually considered it... Would be fun for sure #loveagoodbusinessplan
Wouldn't you have to be asked to be on the show before you consider it? I really think it'd be a hoot for Kate to be on Celebrity Apprentice. That I would definitely watch.
Of course she would go on CA. Trump says the celebs who hound him about going on that show are numerous.
Now she's talking about getting Shoka a "Santa" hate. As Robert pointed out in his book, for someone who doesn't do Santa, she sure mentions him an awful lot.
kateplusmy8
@BColliesRGreat aw. May have to get our boy a Santa hat this year (he tolerates dress up too:)
That should be "Santa HAT"
Hopefully Shoka will give her a muzzle in exchange.
Realitytvkids.com (Administrator) said... 51
By the way..... It's that time of year again. This year I think I may need help coming up with Kate's worst moments. There are just so many of them. Feel free to chime in with your "favorites."
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My vote is on the cruise fiasco.
That jive turkey proved that she's a piece of crap. Kate didn't care how much money her "fans" over-spent, as long as they forked over their money to her.
Piece of poopie.
Pink -- Jive Turkey? Boy, I haven't heard that expression in years! It sure suits KK, though.
Okay, Ladies, I need some advise. One of my Angel Tree kids this year is a little 6 year old boy. I don't know much about boys, LOL. My specialty is usually Barbie dolls and wardrobes. I've already gotten some hot wheels and a couple of age appropriate books (one on dinosaurs and one on trucks) and a couple of outfits. I need suggestions for toys -- something not too expensive. I want to get at least one more thing. HELP!!!!!!!
That entire Trump retweet wreaks of a set up. Too bad she added that she's ALWAYS busy. Much too busy for CA, doncha think?
That woman.If she ain't a grifting, she's a begging for a TV spot somewhere.
Tis the season.
Kate is a twit said... 45
Now she's talking about getting Shoka a "Santa" hate. As Robert pointed out in his book, for someone who doesn't do Santa, she sure mentions him an awful lot.
kateplusmy8
@BColliesRGreat aw. May have to get our boy a Santa hat this year (he tolerates dress up too:)
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I'd like to dress him up as Henry the farmer's dog and help him find his way to a proper home.
You know why Kate's got such an affinity for Amazon, don't you?
They complied with her demands that Robert's book get pulled from their distribution list.
Amazon knows how to help her.
miloandjack
@Kateplusmy8 Expression "grab a bite" describes ME when working! I eat BellaBar 4midmornin snack..I need a 2nd one 4afternoon!
Single White Female. If Kate told Milo that she eats energy bars made of chicken feed, Milo would NEED two of them a day.
They complied with her demands that Robert's book get pulled from their distribution list.
Amazon knows how to help her.
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If they put his book back up, I bet we'll never hear another peep out of Kate about how much she loves them.
If Kate had any sense at all, she would not be replying to Milo and telling her this:
MiloandJack
@Kateplusmy8 I'm an accident waitin 2happen! Was drivin...singin...& eatin! Got peanut butter cracker caught N throat, almost croaked! LOL
Kate Gosselin@Kateplusmy8
@MiloandJack yep, ur more&more like me ALL the X!:) lol. I've almost had 2pull over Bc was choking so horribly and couldn't stop coughing!
readerlady, my older grandson is 6 and you are on the right track with what you bought. Toy cars and trucks, dinosaurs, puzzle books like mazes or hidden pictures. A game or toy he can play by himself if he doesn't have siblings such as the nerf basketball with the hoop (it hangs on a door), or a one of the little games like the magnetic fishing pole with the barrel of fish, etc. My grandsons love those type of things. Hope this helps and have fun shopping!
Kate Gosselin@Kateplusmy8
@MiloandJack yep, ur more&more like me ALL the X!:) lol. I've almost had 2pull over Bc was choking so horribly and couldn't stop coughing!
Oh, good grief. Just what Milo needs to hear. They are twins separated at birth. She'll be on the next plane up there.
I can hear Milo's tail thump thump thumping all the way up here.
Kate is an idiot for leading her on like that.
readerlady, one more thing and I don't know how you feel about this, but my grandsons love the nerf guns. They come with targets and you can get them or the magnetic fish game, etc., for under $10.00.
SOMEONEELSE@catthomas007
@Kateplusmy8 @realdonaldtrump Wow you would be great on Celebrity Apprentice! You have great organizational skills and a winning personality
WINNING PERSONALITY? Now I'm a chokin on my Chinese fortune cookie. Obviously she didn't watch the RV episode.
LMG -- Thanks for the advice. I like the idea of the basketball game. The nerf gun is out. The Salvation Army doesn't give many guidelines for the gifts, but one hard and fast rule is no guns of any kind.
I want to add my vote to the globe incident. It exposed KK for the terrible mother she is. She was so clueless that she actually believed that mess was an example of 'good mothering'. (Not to mention that it inspired the Hitler parody!!)
I also think Maddy's leg should be included in the list...along with the letter firing her from Coupon Cabin.
readerlady, I understand about the gun rule. You know, you can check out Dollar Tree for the nerf basketball game. The hoop comes with a net and some have one ball and some have two. My grandsons are still using the one on their bedroom door that my daughter bought them a year ago. You'll find a lot of stocking stuffers at Dollar Tree, that's where I get them for my boys.
"Oh, good grief. Just what Milo needs to hear. They are twins separated at birth. She'll be on the next plane up there."
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NOOOOOOOO!!!! Please! Anything but that. Milo needs to stay exactly where she/he is!
Auntie Ann...as long as her tail is thump, thump, thumping it's okay. It's when she/he starts hump, hump, humping and heading north that I'm out of here!
I noticed that when Kate tweeted that she'd considered being on CA that she didn't include @realdonaldtrump in the tweet.
I'm betting that Kate has "considered" being on just about every reality show out there. Too bad the producers don't seem to be considering her for these shows. There were rumors of her diva behavior on DWTS, at the benefit with the skaters and on one of the morning shows. People talk and the word gets around. Karma. I will admit though that I would watch her on CA - she'd be eaten alive.
For you EBay shoppers, do you use PayPal? Do you like it? Haven't bought from EBay before.
For someone who retweeted this:
Great Minds Quotes@GreatestQuotes
"Lost time is never found again." - Benjamin Franklin
And who also tweeted this:
Kate Gosselin@Kateplusmy8
RT @realDonaldTrump People ask me what I do in my free time. The answer--I don't have any. ME EITHER! YAY TO BEING BUSY ALL THE TIME:)
She sure had enough FREE time to tweet over 70 tweets in 7 1/2 hours!!
Tweetle, my hubs buys from ebay alot and he set up a paypal account. He's been doing this for about 3 years with ebay and paypal and has never had a problem. Based on his opinion, I would recommend it.
Over In Kate's County said... 64
"Oh, good grief. Just what Milo needs to hear. They are twins separated at birth. She'll be on the next plane up there."
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NOOOOOOOO!!!! Please! Anything but that. Milo needs to stay exactly where she/he is!
Auntie Ann...as long as her tail is thump, thump, thumping it's okay. It's when she/he starts hump, hump, humping and heading north that I'm out of here!
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BRAIN BLEACH! SOMEBODY GET ME THE BRAIN BLEACH!! QUICK ... BRAIN BLEACH!
LMG, Thanks!! Just purchased something today and am now setting up the account.
Hope I don't get carried away. Hahaha.
Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said... 66
For you EBay shoppers, do you use PayPal? Do you like it? Haven't bought from EBay before.
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Love it and have never had a problem. I use it to purchase many online items, not just eBay stuff, as well as 'send' money. It's very quick and easy!
For you EBay shoppers, do you use PayPal? Do you like it? Haven't bought from EBay before.
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I've used it for quite a few years with relatively few problems. However, if something goes wrong, you'll pull you hair out and drink several kegs of rumspringa until it gets straightened out. For buyers, simple ebay transactions, it's fine. There's buyers protection, and they usually side with the buyer if something is sent not as described. Setting up the initial account can be challenging. They want more information than the IRS.
If you want to read some horror stories, google PayPal sucks. There are some nightmares on there, mostly from sellers.
Improbable Dreams said... 52
You know why Kate's got such an affinity for Amazon, don't you?
They complied with her demands that Robert's book get pulled from their distribution list.
Amazon knows how to help her.
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Interesting. Do you think this is why Kate's having an Amazon love fest or is Amazon just her latest cause...like koalas, Keurig, Starbucks....
I use PayPal all the time. I've got an account with them and use PayPal whenever the option is offered. I've got my debit on file with them and have never had a problem (knocking on wood right now). When you make a purchase you get a message from PP. PP is the only one with your account info and you're not putting it out there on any web site you purchase from. I've been happy using PP.
Jane, thanks for the info. My cousin uses it but I remember he had a problem once. He got it cleared up.
I'm going for it!! LOL
Tweet-le De Tweet-le DUMB said... 75
Jane, thanks for the info. My cousin uses it but I remember he had a problem once. He got it cleared up.
I'm going for it!! LOL
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What's life without a few risks, eh? : ) Seriously, it's a good thing and makes purchasing on the Internet pretty quick and easy. Have fun!
I have to clarify, I don't use PP on eBay as I ont go to eBay that often. I use PP when I'm on a vendor site (Zappos, Vermont Country Store, etc.) and pay using the PP option.
It's funny that Kate buys from Amazon all the time but we've never seen a picture loading any Amazon boxes in her car while parked in the fire lane. I'm an Amazon Prime member and have made up my $79 membership fee many times over already.
rainbowsandunicorns said... 72 If you want to read some horror stories, google PayPal sucks. There are some nightmares on there, mostly from sellers.
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Think I'll pass on that. LOL I have enough problems sleeping.
I can't remember my cousin's problem but he did have quite a time getting it all cleared up. He's still using it though. Fingers crossed. I didn't make a large purchase.
I use PayPal all the time. I've got an account with them and use PayPal whenever the option is offered. I've got my debit on file with them and have never had a problem (knocking on wood right now).
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I had a problem that went on for two months. I talked to them so much on the phone that I put them on my friends and family plan (out of network so I wouldn't be using up my minutes). No kidding. I remember one night I talked to five different people...spent nearly two hours trying to get a problem straightened out. They assured me that everything was fixed. It wasn't. Next night, same thing. I made some new friends in customer service! We talked about sports, the weather, cars...
It doesn't happen often, thank goodness. When you're new to it, it can be a bit challenging to navigate your way around, trying to figure out the various steps you have to go through if you are a buyer and something goes wrong.
If you're just paying for eBay transactions, it's fairly easy and problem-free.
Yeah, Jane, I'm living risky tonight!! ;)
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@Kateplusmy8 from now on will the kids get to choose who they spend the holiday with? I think it's great that you let them decide.
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It takes balls (excuse me) to ask her information that they have absolutely no business knowing. Do they actually expect an answer because they "support her," and believe that they deserve to know everything...or were they absent when the sense of decorum was passed out?
Tweet -- I've been using Paypal for online purchases for a long time and never had a complaint. They are an extra layer of protection if something goes wrong with the transaction for some reason or another. With Ebay, they're very good at protecting the buyer, but not all sites are. One tip, though, if you use a credit card or debit card for purchases, there's a small fee for each transaction. If you link them to your checking account, there is no fee.
rainbowsandunicorns, Kate has no decorum and she is the queen of giving out information that is nobody else's business to know (about the kids, Jon, etc.). Therefore, she attracts those same kind of people who probably feel that since Kate puts it all out there, they can ask personal questions. After all, Kate will usually answer them, even if her answers are lies.
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Talk to any child psychologist. It's really not all that "great" to put the burden on a child to decide where they want to spend the holidays when there is a perfectly good family law order in place that fairly divides them, ESPECIALLY when one parent is a parental alienator and mentally ill.
Another vegetarian meal tonight after a trip to the Friday evening farmer's market.
Brussel sprouts, corn, onions, pinto beans, pan fried with garlic and red pepper flakes. Two poached eggs on top. Bread for dipping. Kind of like a super veggie hash. It was good! I think I might be able to do this!
Admin, I agree that the burden should not be on the children to decide where they spend the holidays. To young minds, that's basically asking them to choose between their mommy and their daddy. That is an awful and stressful position to put children in. It gives them unnecessary feelings of guilt for the parent thehy didn't "choose". I know this from experience.
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Talk to any child psychologist. It's really not all that "great" to put the burden on a child to decide where they want to spend the holidays when there is a perfectly good family law order in place that fairly divides them, ESPECIALLY when one parent is a parental alienator and mentally ill.
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The person who tweeted that is a real airhead, vying for third in command after Milo and Milo-in-Training.
LoveMyGrandsons, bingo.
It also creates too much opportunity for parents to be inappropriate. Even in how you phrase the question you can influence children, even who asks can influence them.
For instance if Jon is the one to ask where they want to be they may feel more pressure to say him. If Kate asks it, the opposite. It may come down to, who can I hurt the LEAST by not going to their place on Christmas. It doesn't surprise me one bit that they allegedly chose Kate, the parental alienator. Happens every time.
When they are much order, yes, a kid can start to grasp what is best for them and what their wishes are. But a 12 and 8 year old is FAR too influenced and pressured and overwhelmed by the adults around them especially adults they know full well are fighting over them.
I have never, ever seen it. Not once. A judge simply won't do that to a child.
Yes, Admin, and knowing how Kate feels about Jon and how controlling she is with the kids, the question would not be put in a "nice" way. Their would be guilt and anger involved in how she asked it. I firmly believe that because that's how my mother did it to us. She resented my father so much that she wanted us kids to feel the same.
I feel sorry for the G kids because their minds are going to be so messed up from all of this. It's even worse for them because most of it has been played out publicly.
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@Kateplusmy8 Are you & M and C watching TV?
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Geez...This is another Gladys Kravitz! I thought Milo had the monopoly on that!
My last comment didn't post, so please excuse me if this posts twice.
Yes, Admin, I believe Kate would put the question to them with guilt and some anger, to influence their decision. My mother did this to us. She resented my father so much and she wanted us to feel the same way.
I feel sorry for the G kids because their minds are going to be so messed up from all of this. It will be even worse for them because most of it has been played out publicly and they will even be able to look it up on line and read about it when they get older.
One more thing. I am SO GLAD that there wasn't the internet or Twitter when I was growing up. My mother would have put everything out there for sympathy, and like Kate, most of it would be lies. I was humiliated when she did things in front of a couple of friends that might be over. I can't imagine having it all be so public with the internet, Twitter, plus the magazines and talk shows. That would have made me suicidal at the time.
Not only did the tweetie have the nerve to ask that question, Kate actually answered:
Kate Gosselin@Kateplusmy8
@ljohnson2006 well, it's their vacation, they have rights to decide, in our world anyway... important 2c both but should have say someXs :)
They have "rights to decide"? If the decision went against her, would they still have those rights? It easy to talk about how they "decided" when the decision is in your favor.
WTH is she talking about it in the first place?
I thought she was so so busy--she's been tweeting up a storm today. I'm sure she has well over 100 tweets.
Kate frustrates me to no end. She spends all this time tweeting stupid things, or things that should be private because they are personal, usually involving the kids.
Yet, she always talks about how busy she is and doesn't have a minute to herself. We all know this is a lie and an insult to women who work outside of the home, raise the kids and do the household chores by themselves, cook meals, help with homework, volunteer at school and church, etc. I am so sick and tired of Kate tweeting about how busy she is when she doesn't do sh*t.
What about a child's right to be free of pressure, guilt, and undue influence? What about that?
How come she didn't respect their right to stay with Jon when they were bawling their eyes out at the gate?
Brussel sprouts, corn, onions, pinto beans, pan fried with garlic and red pepper flakes. Two poached eggs on top. Bread for dipping.
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That really sounds good.
Lol..power just went out here but I was prepared..bought candles, propane and charchoal after watching part one..thanks admin..amazing series..I remembered a lot of when I was a kid with no power..and the war-time..amazing. Series finale of bomb girls tonight..loved it =)
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phone dying..a plus tard
I started using Pay Pal in 2007, same with eBay. The only thing that happened was an email from PP and EBay that was asking for too much personal info. It truely looked legal, then I noticed that the letters in the logo were diffrent. I called the 2 companies and sure enough it was a fraud.
I continue to use it at times. I am sure others were not so lucky and unable to retrieve their loss, scary.
I don't know if this has been mentioned before, but I just saw on OWN, the Oprah network, that there will be a reality show with the McGhee sextuplets - they are a set of six African American tups.........
I never knew about them and figure the parents must have done a good job keeping them out of the spotlight. But they will now have their own show!!! They look to be about 2 years old.
I hope OWN does a better job of not exploiting the family but I'm doubtful.
My first thought was :
kart, lookie here sweetie, someone else got YOUR show. And I laughed out loud.
If she finds out about it, she's sure to be pissed.
The children have the maturity, insight and the wealth of life experiences along with ability to weigh outcomes of each decision to know what is best for them so let them decide where they will spend Christmas. (would not want to diagram that sentence)
And since K is letting them make that decison, she will relax her iron hand, I mean fist, to let them decide bedtimes, their menus, whether to go to the movies,participate in gymnastics,sports, after school activities and most importantly when to stay with Daddy. Yeah, right.
Have friends who are vegetarians, some more dedicated than others. Can't believe the difference. Weight loss of course, but they look healthy and I know they feel better. They have dehydrators and use them for so many things. They rave about the kale chips. Their kids eat them as soon as they are ready.
Just watched part 2 of the 1940's House. When they were talking about how tired they were trying to keep up with the trips to the shelter for air raids, it reminded me of the story my mother used to tell. She was a US Army nurse in London and said that sometimes she just stayed in her bed sleeping through the air raid because she was so tired. She also described hearing the buzz bombs. Since I didn't here them mention buzz bombs in the movie, I googled it and found that was another name for doodlebugs, which were talked about.
Zoe..I thought that too..think I would use comfort of bomb shelter to sleep. One lesson learned after power wemt out tonight..yes have candles and propane..maybe not enough..atleadt dd slept through it
off to buy more..and huge thanks to big lab for keeping dd warm...cheerios
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For people interested in experiences during WWII and the London Blitz can I recommended two books?
"Nella Last's War." (Lyn is seen reading it in Part 1 of 1940 House.) It is available on Kindle and is a detailed diary kept by Nella for the Mass Observation Project. The book was also filmed as "Housewife, 49."
"No Time For Romance" by Lucilla Andrews. The autobiography of a young woman who became a nurse during the War, rather famously plagiazied by Iam McEwan when he wrote "Atonement." This is now out of print, but easy to get used on Amazon. My late mother, who was a nurse in London throughout the Blitz, said that this book was amazinglyy accurate.
Has anyone seen this? http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/sen-joe-manchin-asks-mtv-reconsider-w-va-110119657--abc-news-tv.html
I really liked when I read this: "Instead of showcasing the beauty of our people and our state, you preyed on young people, coaxed them into displaying shameful behavior," Manchin wrote in the letter dated Dec. 7, "and now you are profiting from it."
How I read that is another reality show is being called out as being faked because they are being coaxed to display their behavior and MTV is being accused of doing it only for profit.
I have driven through WV a couple of times, it is a very beautiful state. I would much rather see the beauty and the grace of the people living there then a bunch of kids encouraged to act like selfish drunken idiots.
Wow, Milo is an odd duck! From what I gather (and I do find their conversations confusing at times!) she is 'lil and blonde' like Kate, "works,' has a 'hubs' (that word sounds familiar!)she likes to look up to, and is having trouble looking for car rims. For some reason I gathered she was older and ill, incapacitated somewhat and lived in a facility?
Obsessed with Kate's grow-a-boyfriend named Goliath?? Taken on Kate's habits of eating Bella Bars, farmer's market, exercise and made me think of when Kate went to the tractor store - was that where someone's husband thought she was 'smokin' hot?'I would really be careful not to engage her if I were Kate as she sounds 'stalkerish.' ( perish the thought) Been reading some stalker mysteries lately, lol. Also, myabe just me, but some double entendres in her tweets.
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miloandjack
@Kateplusmy8 Expression "grab a bite" describes ME when working! I eat BellaBar 4midmornin snack..I need a 2nd one 4afternoon!
Single White Female. If Kate told Milo that she eats energy bars made of chicken feed, Milo would NEED two of them a day
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“He was very kind to me,” Chapman stated to the board. “Very cordial and very decent man.” But Chapman “was so compelled to commit murder that nothing would have dragged me away from that building. When Mr. Lennon passed me I turned, pulled out my weapon and shot him in the back.” He stated, “This is obviously very embarrassing for me now, having committed murder.”
http://www.examiner.com/article/so-this-is-obviously-very-embarrassing-for-me-now-mark-david-chapman
That's all I have to say about that. RIP John Lennon
Just finished part 2 - was it fair to take those boys back to a time of fear and film them - did they get paid as non-reality kids on TV - what about school which they said they went to every day - modern day school all dressed up? With lunch boxes??
Thoughts?
All the book recommendations sound very good, I will be looking for some of them. Which reminds me of Ms Kreider s worst moments.
Ms Kreider has no interest in anything outside herself. We saw that when she was on Watch What Happens Live, when Andy asked about watching the vice presidential debate. Morgan said she was watching, Ms Kreider said something then Andy called her out, that he saw her watching the Real Housewives.
That entire appearance was weird. Why was she on in first place? Why did she keep touching Morgan? Why couldn't she understand game instructions, did she ever really understand? How about the hilarious bartenders and their facial expressions toward her? Just bizarre. And with her unawareness of anything outside herself, Ms Kreider probably thought this appearance was a good thing. It almost for a fraction of a second makes me feel sorry for her. Almost.
Then I remember she is despicable, boring, spouse abuser, animal abuser and the feeling passes.
Joy I love that Andy called her out on her lie. She was NOT driving here, she was sitting in her green room, watching TV, watching REAL HOUSEWIVES. Pathetic.
I've pieced together a worst moments post but I still have about 17 of them! LOL, how will I ever narrow this down to a top 10?
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Joy I love that Andy called her out on her lie. She was NOT driving here, she was sitting in her green room, watching TV, watching REAL HOUSEWIVES. Pathetic.
I've pieced together a worst moments post but I still have about 17 of them! LOL, how will I ever narrow this down to a top 10?
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You could change it to the top 20 then you'd only have to come up with 3 more! That should be easy. LOL
Just finished part 2 - was it fair to take those boys back to a time of fear and film them - did they get paid as non-reality kids on TV - what about school which they said they went to every day - modern day school all dressed up? With lunch boxes??
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Their mom Kirstie struggled with this. The kids were sleep deprived and hungry and it did raise some ethical issues. The thing is, the family could have quit at any time, and we were only talking about a short duration of a project--I think it was just a few months. I guess the way I see it, this is exactly what children of the 1940s went through and those kids didn't have the option to just quit. And the benefits of going through the hard times were the kids showed how resilient and cheerful they are and were less interested in TV and Playstation when they got home.
As far as being paid I have no idea if they were paid. I suspect they were not paid actually since I believe they emphasized the family was volunteering. Although like the Farmer's Wife, I think paying them would have messed up the authenticity of the situation.
Tweet I've considered that if you think you can hang on for such a long and treacherous ride!
Admin, Kate had so many bad moments during 2012, you may just have to accept the fact that there needs to be a top 15 or 20! That awful twitter pic of Mady's legs should definitely be near the top.
Go for it Admin. It's more like if YOU can hang in there putting it all together.
That's all I have to say about that. RIP John Lennon
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RIP. :(
Another little creepy tidbit, he shook Sean Lennon's hand just before it happened, spoke to him. Sean was SIX. Just free reign access to a little kid like that.
First of all I want to send big thank yous to all of you who gave me such great ideas for my step mom. Sorry I dashed out so quick and didn't respond until now. I had to go back to work and then it was our company Christmas party, so I'm doing saturday morning catch up.
I think I'm leaning towards a magazine subscription or a booklight (or those cute light up readers, PJs Momma). I can not get her anything cooking related because she is an instructor at the Culinary Institute of America, she usually gets me autographed cookbooks.
She is hard to shop for! She loves to shop and doesn't seem to have any budget, either! I'll let you all know what I end up with.
Admin, I am looking forward to reading the Best of kHate's Worst! Here's the thing, though. How do her fans not see what a hypocrite she is. Really, HOW? ugh I'd like to see the cost comparison between $200 of Kiehls and a movie and popcorn times 9.
Admin -- I agree with Tweet, Top 20 or, if you can't come up with 3 more that you feel are worthy, Top 15 and 2 (dis)honorable mentions.
I am sure KT going around whispering the best Christmas ever has nothing to do with the thought processes of 8 year old kids.
How do you top last year's bizarre Christmas? Endlessly wrapping presents for weeks night after night and still not enough time to get them all - presents stacked to the ceiling, literally spilling from the locked closet yet no photo emerged. Last minute dash for the surprise of a lifetime that they were totally going to freak out over and so unexpected. I was excited too. I thought it was a pony, at best, baby goat secondarily. Imagine how my little face fell when I found out it was a 99 cent beta fish that the kids had been begging for since as far as back as one could remember. Not that cost matters. Just they didn't get that fish until she got a free fish bowl for inspiration.
No way she is going to stay cooped up in that dreary house with all those kids when they would perfectly fine with Jon. I gotta get out of here - a 1 bedroom apartment is looking really good to me right now. Works best for all for me to be a traveling mom one week and stay at home mom the next.
My guess is a job, a film crew (sure to be beloved), and travel.
The most impressive, and telling, part of her now so so mediocre life is the 70+ tweets over a 7 hour daytime period. She's just so busy busy, lists lists lists. My thumbs hurt thinking about it. As if she could hold down a job with that phone attached to her hand. A real role model for working moms of the world. Sheeple?
Admin, I am looking forward to reading the Best of kHate's Worst! Here's the thing, though. How do her fans not see what a hypocrite she is. Really, HOW? ugh I'd like to see the cost comparison between $200 of Kiehls and a movie and popcorn times 9.
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In all fairness to Kate (yeah, I know) why not, along with the worst moments, also include the best (maybe just one best) moments? Of course this would take some really serious thought, but there must be something in there somewhere!
What best moments?
I do always include a best one but invariably it's something Kate didn't have a part in. I know what it's going to be this year.
Did Kate have any "best moments" in 2012? I certainly can't think of any.
Think of the charities she could have spent more time promoting:
Red Cross
Special Olympics
Susan Komen Foundation
Hurricane Sandy Relief
One tweet about each, is not considered "promoting".
Yet, how many times did she tweet @CoffeeMate, @Keurig, @bellabars, @NorthernQuilted, @Sears, @amazon, @Kiehls, etc. etc.
It just shows where her priorities lie.
Kate just tweeted Collin's private wish list. But it's different from what she reported earlier about all 6 wanting iPods? or is this a Secret Santa thing among the kids.
Remember Camp Barnabas, the camp for special needs kids that helps them participate in normal activities just like the other kids?
Yeah, I don't either. Because even though Kate was guest speaker at their fundraiser, she NEVER ONCE MENTIONED IT.
http://www.realitytvkids.com/2012/05/kate-in-missouri.html
That is VERY sweet although should not be public. And watch out Cara because you're competition for Kate.
That little sweetheart did not deserve to have Kate smash her hand into his mouth.
It appears to be a Secret Santa list that Kate tweeted. I'm confused about why Collin put Cara on his list. He wants Cara for Christmas? What, as a mother substitute? Just seems odd to me.
I think it's sweet. Sort of an all I want for Christmas is you type thing. Knowing the sweetheart Collin is, I get it.
Also shows where his priorities are. On the people he loves, not stuff. He's a good kid, always has been.
Happy Hanukkah!
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Happy Hanukkah!
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Of course I wish Collin all the best- he did have domineering tendencies to his brothers.(pushing, hitting, grabbing, bossing) Probably due to his own earlier treatment by mom & learning from her example. I have always been concerned about him, and the other boys and Alexis the most.He is now a thin shadow of his former self from the photos I've seen, never looking happy or at the camera.I'm glad hehas a good relationship with Cara.
Wow, Kh8te must be horribly lonely and desparate; she's actually having a twitter conversation with Milo. Sad and pathetic, but she deserves it
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I think it's sweet. Sort of an all I want for Christmas is you type thing. Knowing the sweetheart Collin is, I get it.
Also shows where his priorities are. On the people he loves, not stuff. He's a good kid, always has been.
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Awww, Collin is a sweetheart! I always got the feeling that he is one of those kids who is in trouble a lot, but has no idea why- you know, the 'can never do anything right' kid? All they want is love from their mom and dad, unconditional love. Heartbreaking. Cara probably is the one who tends to him and soothes him when gets in trouble. She is his nurturer. Sweet children.
Happy Hanukkah to all of our Jewish friends here!
I could be reading more into Collin's list than is there. It sounds so sad to me listing Cara as something he wants for Christmas. Is it because she is kinder to him than Kate is?
iAm Wise @iAmTheWiseOne
Keep an open mind and listen to others, but be careful and don't be fooled. Most people aren't concerned with your best interests.
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Can I just say I completely disagree with this stupid platitude she retweeted and I'm sure fully believes? Most people don't want what's in your best interest? B-S!! Most people are good at heart, love others, and want what's best for others. The world isn't this scary evil place where everyone is out to get everyone else. Kate? That's called paranoia.
Open your eyes to people, let them in. Most people are good at heart. And if you notice a lot of people are saying things that you disagree with, chances are they are right and you are wrong and YOU are the one who needs to change, not them.
If anything it's Kate who does not want what is best for others--namely her own children.
Most people aren't concerned with your best interests.
But what are Kate's "best" interests, in her mind? Another TV show exploiting her kids? Three expensive cars, grabbing as much free stuff as she can including from her fans, spending money to keep looking like an MILF? If that's the case most people aren't concerned with her best interests.
That platitude almost sound like she's warning herself about her "tweeties". She'll listen to them, but she's not fooled by them. But she will USE them to make herself look better.
Here that, Milo?
Tweet-le, what does MILF mean? Thanks.
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Tweet-le, what does MILF mean? Thanks.
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Mother I'd Like to F**K. The things you learn on the internet!! :(
Tweet-le, thanks for the good laugh! I can usually figure out the abbreviations used, but that one I couldn't; now I know why! Thank you!
That's the problem is the things that she values that are "best" for her are fundamentally different morals and values than the things most people value.
We've got the value of money, stuff, things, fame.
And then we've got values of safety, security, love, togetherness, comfort, privacy.
There's not much meeting in the middle.
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Tweet-le, thanks for the good laugh! I can usually figure out the abbreviations used, but that one I couldn't; now I know why! Thank you!
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LMG, you're welcome, I think. You seem like such a sweet lady I wasn't sure if I should even say what it meant. LOL
Thank you, Tweet-le. And thanks for helping me keep up with the internet jargon!
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Thank you, Tweet-le. And thanks for helping me keep up with the internet jargon!
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It's probably nothing that will come up in your everyday conversations. ;)
Thought this was appropriate and on topic (hooray for me, I'm on topic for once!)
Unbelievable to think about how people survived. Wow.
http://www.cbc.ca/strombo/technology-1/this-interactive-map-shows-every-bomb-that-hit-london-during-the-blitz.html?p=home&s=home
I never got the sense his past behavior issues were because he was a bad kid but rather because he had been so mistreated and so unable to express his emotions in a constructive way that he didn't know how to do anything but lash out. I firmly believe he is a very loving and sensitive child.
Happy Hanukkah to all celebrating! I made brisket and noodle kugel last night in preparation for tonight's dinner with the kids. Table's set, menorahs are out, come on over : )
We also have a Christmas tree - yes, quite the ecumenical family here LOL And Tibetan prayer flags on a tree outside - my nephew is a practicing Buddhist. It's all good and it's all interesting!
As for Kate tweeting Collin's holiday list? I haven't seen it and don't want to until family has gone home and I can sit and let my anger out over her latest idiocy.
Bearswife, I looked at the map and you are so right. It is unbelievable how people survived all of those bombs. There were so many areas that showed 3 or more bombs right next to each other on the same block. When you see just how close they were and how many there were, it just boggles my mind what these poor people had to deal with for so very long.
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I never thought he was a bad either. I think he is treated like he is, being punished for typical child behavior that kids cannot help. I think he is the 'cant do anything right' kid, in his mother's eyes, and now in his own eyes. Doesnt make him bad, he is just the one that got picked for that label, the scapegoat for his mother's frustrations, so the only attention he is receiving from his mother is negative attention, and thats when she is paying any attention to those children at all. I think children like Collin need a little bit more attention and affection from their parents, a little bit individual time- doesnt have to be much, even 5 minutes a day, to reinforce their love for him. Some kids just need that more than others and parents need to recognize these needs in their children. The sextuplets aren't getting that as long as Kate insists they are 1 entity. I am glad Jon gets the boys alone, they probably thrive when they are with him.
Admin, I see you have swiffered the post from Anonymous; thank you. Please swiffer my response to them at 149 so posters here don't think I'm nuts and picking a fight with myself!!
Thanks, Admin!
OT!!
So I've been searching for gift ideas for my step mom (despite everyone's suggestions) and in my internet travels I stumbled across this:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/98590783/ready-to-ship-when-a-baby-is-born-so-is
What do y'all think? She is a new grandma...
I think when kids this little act up it very rarely has to do with the people they really are, that they are bad kids, but, rather something going on at home, something triggering it in the environment.
Bearswife, I went to the Etsy sight and they have so many beautiful items. I think it's a great idea for a new grandma!
I looked at the picture of the Christmas list. If you look at it you will see that the writing is different. Who ever started that list and finished it is not the same person. Look through out the letter and you will see how different the letters are formed. Is there anyone here that is a writing expert? Look at the way Merry isn't even written on the line like the other words. The e's aren't the same and you can see that capitals were used for Collin, Legos and Art Set but not for Cara or Christmas. I am sure this is just another perfect family set up. Something just doesn't jive to me.
LMG, of course you love the sign! I knew you would ;)
Did she ask permission to tweet Collin's list? Why is she doing this? Can't these kids have anything that private? She's nuts.
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Happy Hanukkah to all celebrating! I made brisket and noodle kugel last night in preparation for tonight's dinner with the kids. Table's set, menorahs are out, come on over : )
We also have a Christmas tree - yes, quite the ecumenical family here LOL And Tibetan prayer flags on a tree outside - my nephew is a practicing Buddhist. It's all good and it's all interesting!
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Jane, I love it!! I would do the same :)
And now, since I am linguist of the Persian persuasion, I celebrate the Persian holidays (now rose, anyone?) Great stuff- I love holidays! I dont do Ramadan, but I partake in the Eid's after, our teachers usually plan the whole event, so I am not about to say no to good food! Any reason to celebrate and be festive, and I am in!
admin asked -- What best moments?
I do always include a best one but invariably it's something Kate didn't have a part in. I know what it's going to be this year.
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Didn't she do anything right this year? There must be something...ANYTHING!
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@Kateplusmy8 U sillies out there bark abt Kate keepin kids lives private...well, duh, that's why she doesn't tell U all their business! :)
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@Kateplusmy8 But rest assured...they have friends, schoolmates, extra-curricula activities..sports, music, drama, etc! #WellRoundedKids :)
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But she tells YOU, Milo? Sure she does! You know for a fact that these kids are involved in sports, music, drama, etc? She told you and you believe her, or you're just making this up to sound like her confidant and best friend?
Why is it Milo's business but not anyone else? Does she think it's a little dangerous for Kate to tell a stranger those things? She really thinks she is somehow different from any run of the mill obsessed fan. She's not.
I looked at Collin's list, and I'm not so sure he means that he wants Cara for Christmas, but rather he added her name because he's exchanging with her. Does that make sense?
He numbered Cara though so I think that's pretty clear what he meant. It's sweet. I suppose Cara has become quite parentified with him.
Hi All. Could someone explain to me what it means when Milo puts #WellRoundedKids at the end of her tweet? What does that mean when people do that. Is that something she made up or does it default to that saying based on her tweet. Hope this makes sense....I know NOTHING about twitter.
Second, I'm having a hard time finding that Andy Cohen show that Kate was on when she was playing that game with Morgan and making an ass out of herself. I looked it up on Youtube but couldn't see that part of the show. I can only watch the first half. Someone here sent me that link a long time ago but it didn't take me to the part I am asking about. Thanks if you can help me out!!
Cara has seen to be paired with Collin a few times- remember Kate explained they were "C" buddies,and then played Lego on the RV trip (Excluding Clay) Maybe playing with her is a reward or something, since they already are compatible?
Ugh, Kate's acrylic nail in the corner of the list.
AND..Happy Hanukkah to all who celebrate the holiday! :)
admin said, He numbered Cara though so I think that's pretty clear what he meant. It's sweet. I suppose Cara has become quite parentified with him.
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He may have been confused, though, when Kate said that he's exchanging with Cara and thought that she's on his list...you know, putting the person's name there to show it's Cara. I don't know. It was just another possibility.
Paper Plates Forever! Yay! said... 164
Here's the video of Kate playing the game.
http://www.bravotv.com/watch-what-happens-live/season-8/videos/morgan-fairchild-name-that-show
Ooooh, Paper Plate, I know the answer to this one! (Auntie Ann explained it to me.)
It's called a hashtag that the sender puts at the end of their tweet, hoping to start a trend so others use the same hashtag. It's basically the personal opinion of the tweeter. In this case, Milo thinks Kate's doing a wonderful job of raising well-rounded kids. Blech!
Warning, off topic to my favorite topic. I read my copy of TV Guide magazine this am, Dec10 edition. On the letters page there is a FANTASTIC photo of Saint Tony of the Ballroom with the mirror ball trophy. The look of absolute surprise and delight on his face is perfect!
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Why is it Milo's business but not anyone else? Does she think it's a little dangerous for Kate to tell a stranger those things? She really thinks she is somehow different from any run of the mill obsessed fan. She's not.
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Totally my opinion and based only on watching this all unfold over the years and seeing Milo on other blogs and Twitter. I think she and Kate have a weird, sick, enabling Internet relationship. Kate gives Milo some status on Twitter and therefore the 'net (and let's not forget Dr Drew) by 'talking' to her, perhaps DMing or emailing her and Milo gives Kate not only the kudos and praise and high fives she craves but I'd bet my last dollar that she sends Kate and the kids a lot of stuff. And we all know how important freebies are to Kate. And she may have been involved in the summer vacation at the beach house.
'Course the thing with these freebies from Milo is that this could all backfire on both of them. I just don't see it ending well.
I do agree Kate completely uses her and it's so very wrong. I've never seen a celeb use a fan this terribly. And what happens ifkate ever stops? Milo already freaks out if she disappears for just a few days !
Yes, I agree Kate uses Milo. However Milo brought this on herself because she refuses to think logically and acknowledge all of the wrong Kate has done. She put those blinders on herself and will not take them off.
Thanks Auntie and LMG! I still cannot access that video. Maybe it's because I live in Canada.....waaaahhh.........
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@Allisstair @Kateplusmy8 except for what Kate puts out which makes it clear those boys in school 10+ hrs per day NOT in sports
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Why do these tweeters keep insisting that these kids are in school ten plus hours a day? There is no school in session that long. Most schools start at 8 a.m. of 8:30 a.m. and end at 3 p.m. That's seven hours. They are not IN SCHOOL ten hours. Even counting a bus ride to and from, it's not TEN PLUS hours.
"Why do these tweeters keep insisting that these kids are in school ten plus hours a day?"
Why do you keep bringing it here? We all know there are a few haters who exaggerate and say things that are outright untrue. They make us look bad and I myself find it very irritating but it doesn't help to repost them here that just makes it worse! Come on just ignore them!!!!!!!!!
I just find it fascinating that with all of the fans and non-fans being "outed," that Milo's secret identity has not yet been revealed. There are no super sleuths who can confirm if it's a man, woman, teenager, paid intern, Iwana, in-patient in an institition...what?
OT Alert: I'm watching a show on the Travel channel that is going to the most "Christmasy" places in America. Right now they are in Paradise, PA, deep in Amish country, to see the Christmas museum. Oh my gosh, it is so old fashioned and has so many displays. They are gorgeous! One of them is the old fashioned Woolworths display, just like the store. They said this museum is a favorite of kids and adults alike.
I don't know how far Paradise is away from where Kate lives, but this would be a great place to take the kids for an afternoon. I'm sure they would love the lights, the decorations, and all of the displays they have.
Boy, I wish I lived closer to it so I could take my grandkids to see it!
LoveMyGrandsons said... 177
I don't know how far Paradise is away from where Kate lives, but this would be a great place to take the kids for an afternoon. I'm sure they would love the lights, the decorations, and all of the displays they have.
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I don't think it's more than an hour but one of the more local folks could verify that. Kate take the kids somewhere fun? Nah.
You guys called it. You said she'd tweet something about one of the boys after stating here she never talks about them.
Here's your sign.
LOL
(maybe she's trying to grift the boy's lists, since she doesn't want to spend money on the icky boys)
You're right, Jane. Kate would never take the kids someplace fun, and I just cannot comprehend that when they are so close to a fun-filled holiday place. the show didn't mention if there is an admission fee, but we all know Kate has the money to do.
Geesh, Kate, get the kids out of the house and take them someplace that celebrates the spirit of the holiday.
Bearswife, about a book reading night light as not to bother your bed partner. A wife asked her husband if her reading in bed bothered him. He replied, "It's not the reading that keeps me awake, it's the page turning." Chuckle, never forget that.
Have a big pot of potato soup on the stove. If I had started it this morning, it would have been in my 1970 era crock pot.
DWINDLE!!
I'm making lentil soup in my crock pot.....mmmmm
Carolina peach, that is funny. Sounds like something I would say.
I am still on the fence as to what to buy for step mom. The Bear thinks it's odd for me to buy anything grandma related, since it's my brother's kid. I know you are all anxiously awaiting my final decision! #snark #iknowyouall dontgiveaturd!
Bearswife, I personally don't think it's odd that you give you step mom something grandma related just because it's your brothers child.
My father-in-law had been remarried about 12 years when my daughter was born. She loved my daughter and always treated her the same as she did her other grandchildren. And my daughter used to love to spend time with grandpa and grandma.
Anyway, just my opinion. You and the Bear have to decide what you want to get her. I'm sure she will love whatever you choose, grandma related or not. (I'm also sure she's going to love that little grandbaby no matter what!)
In my previous post I meant to say I'm sure she's going to SPOIL that little grandbaby no matter what.
I don't know how far Paradise is away from where Kate lives, but this would be a great place to take the kids for an afternoon. I'm sure they would love the lights, the decorations, and all of the displays they have.
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It's in the old Dutch Town and Country Inn that went bankrupt many years ago. They've turned it into a wonderful museum. I've been there a few times. Yes, it's very Christmasy, but there's so much from the 40s and 50s (Woolworth's store, trip down Memory Lane, night before Christmas in the 1950s) that is more of a nostalgia thing. There are train exhibits, Santa's workshop, little vignettes about how the Amish celebrate Christmas, Christmas around the world.
It's about 45 minutes to an hour from Kate. They did a really nice job with it, but I'm not sure I'd drive that far to see it.
I am still on the fence as to what to buy for step mom. The Bear thinks it's odd for me to buy anything grandma related, since it's my brother's kid. I know you are all anxiously awaiting my final decision! #snark #iknowyouall dontgiveaturd!
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I was watching National Lampoon. How about something from the Jelly of the Month Club? It's the gift that keeps giving all year long.
Nobody wants to "out" Milo.
She's not abusive to haters. She's not evil.
Nobody cares who she is.
The G's have instead gone to Toys R Us, supposedly for Toys for Tots but also the Secret Santa thing in their house.
Parent In Lancaster County, thank you for the details. Being that I love nostalgia, I know I would enjoy it. With the trains and the lights, I think my grandsons would, too, but probably not as much as me.
Toys for Tots alert!!
kateplusmy8
Just finished shopping at Toysrus picking out toys for TOYS FOR TOTS and our own secret Santa..crowded was an understatement ...but fun!
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I'm sure Kate took all the kids with her to pick out the Toys for Tots toys and their own family Secret Santa gifts. I just know she did! What a fun, family experience for a change!
Wait. What??....
To all of you who are celebrating Hanakkuh starting this evening, have a joyous holiday season. Shalom.
I think Collin has always been KKs least favorite child, because he's the most stubborn. Her idea of raising and disciplining a child isn't to teach and "train them up in the way they should go" but to subjugate them (look it up, Kate). She's finally broken Collin's spirit, so she wants to show off to the world what a "good boy" he is now. I feel so sorry for those kids, but especially for the boys. They're never going to have any semblance of a normal life as adults, with KK as their example.
Nobody wants to "out" Milo.
She's not abusive to haters. She's not evil.
Nobody cares who she is.
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I agree, count me in. I don't want to out ANYONE, including Milo. I don't CARE who she is, or ANYONE is, even you all. I just care we have fun here, period. It makes me uncomfortable when outing is discussed at all.
I hope it's true they went shopping for Toys for Tots. I think that's great.
Why oh why does Kate feel the need to advertise every time they go shopping and what store they went to? I know this one is just to get it out there that she's doing something for Toys for Tots. I hope it's true that she really is giving to that organization. I also wish she would just do it without advertising what she is doing. Can she ever do charity without announcing it to get praise?
Parent in Lanc, mmmm jelly!
Well it has stopped snowing, so I am going to take the dog on a "W" (we cant say the full word here) and then shovel for a bit...
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lol, we can't say the W word either or even spell it! We say 'perambulate' and she knows it too I think...hate to let her down if we don't go. Has to be at the same time each day if possible...who rules the roost here,, hmm.
I agree, count me in. I don't want to out ANYONE, including Milo. I don't CARE who she is, or ANYONE is, even you all. I just care we have fun here, period. It makes me uncomfortable when outing is discussed at all.
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I apologize. I wasn't suggesting or hoping that Milo would be outed, but simply that I found it interesting that nobody seems to know if she's a paid intern or just a bizarre fan. Since there are quite a few comments on here about her and how Kate needs her as much as she needs Kate, I hope that she is a PR person. If she's an obsessed fan, there's no telling what might happen if Kate cuts off her DM line to Milo. Ignored fans such as this have proven to be dangerous stalkers. Kate continues to feed her, and it will be Kate's problem as to how to end it. I think that Milo believes that she and Kate will be best friends forever.
Admin said... "I hope it's true they went shopping for Toys for Tots. I think that's great."
I so agree. I hope the kids had a fun experience!
But - Another contradiction from Kate. She can't and won't take the kids out to a simple movie (or anywhere) because of the horrible commotion that would cause with the common people, yet she takes them all to ToysRUs on a Saturday 2 weekends before Christmas? ummmm, sure Kate. You don't take them all anywhere together - well, except to church a few times a year. Sorry, but I find it hard to believe. If it's true, I love it!
OR, did Kate do all the shopping for Toys4Tots and the secret Santa gifts herself, going off a wish list they'd given her, thus taking the fun of shopping for each other out of the equation?. Since, Kate left out the words 'took the kids' shopping, I vote for Kate doing it all herself. She's the ultimate kill-joy ever!
She had to announce she was buying for charity because we called her out on her grifting yesterday. Remember we said she would do this?
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@pistachio_dot @kateplusmy8 Wow all that time playing school in the basement & a 8yr old can't spell Christmas & messy writing.
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For some reason I can't pull up the photo again, but I didn't see any misspellings on that list. I noticed the letters in "Christmas" were close together, but I thought it was spelled correctly.
I've always sort of felt sorry for Collin. He was teased about his big head and his breathing. I hope that he has bonded with Cara. He needs someone who doesn't think that he's just another icky boy.
..and his droopy eyelid. Kate hated any 'imperfection' in the kids. He and Hannah had sort of cross-eyes but luckily have outgrown it as far as I can tell.
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